Will you read your partners diary????

Diary - Diary id a book where in we used to write all or some of frustrations, happiness, regrets and other emotions..
@cecelgay (563)
Philippines
August 22, 2008 12:15am CST
Will you read your partners diary when you saw it? As a person we will be curious what's inside of it especially if that diary is owned by our boyfriend or girlfriend. Will you still want to read it even if you know that your invading her/his private property?
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
LOL. to be honest, curiosity always comes with me whenever I saw my partners things which has notes in it. and if I saw his diary, I will definitely peek on it!..LOL, am I bad?.. anyway, I believe that half of himself was written on his diary, and I wanted to know if there is something written about me. and I wanted to know his secrets, or if if there's anything I need to know about him.
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Hehehe, is it you just really want to know him much better or what you're really after is to know all of his secrets and something about his ex's, Hehehe, I have that knid of experience, my boyfriend read my diary, I feel bad...
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• Philippines
26 Aug 08
LOL. exactly! I don't know. of course, insecurities always comes in me. I wanted to know if he still feels something about his ex's. I know that there's already none. but I wanted to know his attitude way back then..
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Realistically speaking, one would really check and read it out of curiosity. Yes, that invasion of privacy. How about you? would you want another person to read your diary without your permission? I'm sure you wouldn't like that either. As they say, respect begets respect. "Don't do unto others what you don't want others to dop unto you". That's my opinion, nothing personal.
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@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
hehe... yeah right... I already had that experience, my boyfriend read all my diaries when i am at my vacation.. Tsk.. i feel so bad about that and the worst thing there is he judge me easily on what he read, yes that is my diary but sometimes we misinterpret what really is the meaning of those words. But take note, he even dont want me to read his txt messages.... Tsk! So unfair!!
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
25 Aug 08
That is very tempting, but I wont do that... not unless he give me the right to read it...as in giving it to me personally and ask me if I would like to read it. i think even if the person is your boyfriend or girlfriend, you should still respect his/her privacy. It is important that we know the limitation of what we should and should do. If I really want to read it, I will ask his permission.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
No i won't read it or even be curious. Why because I respect her privacy and do trust her. I just avoid trouble. But if ever I will ask her first. For me diaries,her things,even her cell phone, is her life not mine. She still have a life of her own even I am their and I exist. Have a nice dAY!
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• United States
22 Aug 08
I would probably read it whether out of curiosity or boredom :D If we were fighting it might give me insite into whats going through his mind and let me know what I can do (if anything) to work on things and even if we were getting along I would probably read it just for something to do....lol...as it is, I get bored and go through his text messages on his phone for giggles because I know he gets jokes from his friends. My theory is that if we are in a relationship there isn't any reason to hide things. He is more than welcome to snoop through my stuff too. He knows my passwords for my email and myspace accounts. If there is something I don't want him to know and he doesn't want me to find out, we are both smart enough to know not write it down so the other can see it!
@rbailey83 (1428)
• Canada
22 Aug 08
i guess i would be curious at times, but for the most part i really don't care, it's her diary, i have no business reading it, and it is her private thoughts, i have no right to read it unless she tells me to
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