Listener or Speaker?

I am a good listener. I always have angelic patience for listening ohters, it's related to my introverted character. And I think a good speaker should be a great listener first. But I still hate some persons with too much words. Sometimes when I need their advice, they often analysed the things from A to Z, all stuff I knew. Actually, what they need to do is giving me a simple suggestion in their own opinions.

I am more of a listener than a speaker. I'm not a good speaker, sometimes I put my words into writing, because I could express more when writing.

i think i;m good at both. i will listen to my friends, families problems. and such. then help them comming up with ideas or plans. and me too. i have this one friend who talks and talks and seriosuly says nothing it aggitates me. heh. i guess not everyone can have the power of the tounge. but then come to think about it she doesnt have the power of the ear either

Actually I am more of a speaker because I have quite impatience nature of attitude and I am very aggressive and strong. Sometimes I find it very difficult to communicate when one person just want to speak and could not listen to my advises. I have tried to tone down my speeches where after i complete speaking about problems i will listen to my friend feedback before i proceed.So it is important to learn to be good listener in order to get people to hear you when you speak.