Nothings going right for me the last three days..;

@brisk123 (2826)
India
August 25, 2008 9:24am CST
Hi everyone!I don't know what is wrong with me?Since past three days,I am getting upset and crying all day.I don't feel like going out anymore.I am staying alone.Nobody is here with me.I don't even feel like talking to anybody.Is there something wrong with me?I am scared.
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7 responses
• United States
25 Aug 08
You could be going thru changes that you are not aware of, and that is not necessarily a bad thing, We have a choice as to be happy or sad. As you are feeling these things try to look inside to see what is the cause of it and know that the only thing to fear is fear itself, I know that sounds cliche but it is true. As your mind travels to negative places try to bring them back to happier moments, it is ok and this time will pass. it always does Peace and smiles are being sent to you
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
25 Aug 08
Thank you.I never felt this sad before.I don't know whether the cause is loneliness or something else.My parents stay far away and my fiance is also not around.I don't have anyone right now beside me to talk to and comfort me.I only feel like crying.This is the reason why I log in to myLot.I want to divert my mind into something good and cheer up myself.
• United States
25 Aug 08
There ya go, that is a good thing to do, get your mind going in different better places. It could be just a simple case of being lonely for a moment, or it could be a harmonal issue, are you pregnant, getting ready to start your cycle, or sometimes the weather can affect moods, it could be a number of things but I wouldnt just jump to something is wrong. Look around at all that you have to be thankful for, sometimes that helps me get out unhappy places to realize how blessed I am and give thanks. Hope this helps ya hun :)
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
25 Aug 08
I guess, I am feeling just lonely and miserable.I am not pregnant either.I am trying hard to keep myself occupied, but this is not going away.
@redkathy (3375)
• United States
26 Aug 08
If you know that you aren't pregnant, which is an emotional roller coaster or at least it was for me, it's probably just hormones. Your young, have lots of years to go! Do something that involves others. Maybe volunteer to help out somewhere. You will get a good feeling about yourself, be helping someone else and won't have time to think about being sad or alone.
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
26 Aug 08
No, I am not pregnant, not until I am married but I would love to become a mother.Then I guess,I won't find time to sit and cry alone.My precious little angel will be always by my sideright now it is only in my dreams.I am feeling much better talking to you all.It is so nice to know that people are so concern about you.I am happy.
• United States
26 Aug 08
I agree with the others. Find excuses to get out of your home, even if you are just going outside to plant flowers or something like that. (Maybe it is the wrong time of year for planting flowers...) Find fresh air. Walk in the park. Visit the library. Walk through a local shopping center. Sign up for a class that suits your interests. Take a trip and go visiting relatives. Or maybe take the opportunity of being alone to do things that you've always wanted to do but could not do because others were around - try new foods, start a sewing project - do something that you've always wanted to try that others would think is ridiculous, but since they're not around, they cannot tell you so. If you sit alone feeling sorry for yourself because you are alone, then these sorts of feelings are inevitable. Take the opportunity of being alone to try something and to do something fun and exciting for yourself! Best wishes! and hope you get to feeling better!
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
26 Aug 08
Yes, my friend, I have decided to join some classes that I always wanted to.It will be starting from next week.I need to start preparing myself and get some required stuff for the class.Books, yes I have plenty.I got it from my brother in law last week.I can read them too and the good part is today one of my college friend called up and guess what..she is in the town.I am seeing her this weekend.After 3 years I will be meeting her again.I am so excited.She is my good friend.Thank you Highly Clever for being so concern and I appreciate.
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@iyah10 (4116)
• Kuwait
26 Aug 08
I felt sad and worry when I read about this post of yours and I hope that you were fine unto this time for it is not good for someone to cry for a successive days without any further reasons and I guess it is better for you to go out and take some fresh air even only in the garden......
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
26 Aug 08
Thank you my friend for being so concern.I am glad to have friends like you.I am feeling better today.I guess, I will be alright in few days.It is just that I am unable to find out the reason why I am sad, if only I knew things wouldn't be that bad for me
@lwethu (242)
• South Africa
26 Aug 08
I think this does happen in times in our lives especial when you have no one to talk to, when you are alone you will think of every thing which happen in your life and you will end up crying every day and the best way is to make sure that keep yourself busy.Join same sport clubs you will meet new and interesting people and you will end up forgetting about your problems.But I am sure you do not have problems except that lonelines which cuase you to think a lot I use to have the same experience last year when I was staying alone but now I don't have it any more because I have same accompany.
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
26 Aug 08
Maybe this can be one of the reasons.I need to go out and find something interesting to do.I just hope this will cheer me up.
@jerryn (818)
• United States
26 Aug 08
My dear friend. Sounds like you're dealing with a hormonal imbalance. Don't be scared it will pass.
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
26 Aug 08
I don't know exactly what is wrong with me.It is just that I don't feel good anymore, maybe I need a break.
@jonesy123 (3950)
• United States
25 Aug 08
I can relate. When you are lone, such moods come and go. Depending on what is going on in your life, what never bothered you much before (when you had plenty of company) can bother you greatly now to the point of depression. I suggest you find something new to explore. Go for a walk or drive. Explore an area of town that you have not seen before. Or try to pick up a new hobby that you might enjoy. Take community classes to meet locals or join a gym. Anything really to get out of the house and meet real people every so often. Online communities are really not a good substitute for face-to-face contacts, but it will help a bit, too. Hope you'll get out of this funk soon!
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
25 Aug 08
I am thinking about joining some arts&crafts classes.It is my hobby and I am just hoping to feel better.Thank you for being so concern and understanding.I appreciate.