What would you do?

@rustantl (258)
United States
August 26, 2008 3:47pm CST
So I have this person in my life that I thought was a great friend we were together at least two nights a week and had a great time...We did not agree on everything however like she is very jealous and controlling of her man...I am not...Like I was not allowed to have her mans phone number in my cell but she was allowed to have my man's cause I am not like that...Anyway I thought I could trust her because she seemed the type I could...Then the other night we were all sitting around here and I noticed she was sitting really close to my man while he was playing guitar I saw him getting upset for some reason so i sent my other friend to sit between them...Well, come to find out she was hitting on him in a dirty was even brought my name into it. So my other friend asked her what that was all about and she said yes I told him he was a good looking man but that was not even close to all she said...But, not once has she tried to say sorry she seems to think it is o.k. just gets a attitude when anyone brings it up? What would you do in a situation like this?
4 responses
@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
27 Aug 08
Hi rust, This girl does not sound like a good friend to me. She has stepped way over the line into your relationship with your guy. I would demand that she erase your guy's number from her phone and tell her that you don't trust her. With friends like that, who needs enemies? One of my so called great friends had an affair with my first husband. I think I missed all the signs because I was too needy of her friendship. Don't make the same mistake. Get away from her before she does any more damage. Keep me posted, ok? leenie
@rustantl (258)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I am sorry to hear about that! Thank you so much for your support and I will keep you posted!
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@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
30 Aug 08
Rusti, Thank you so much for the best response tag. I hope to return the favor. I will give a plus for your post. leenie
@rustantl (258)
• United States
31 Aug 08
You are very welocme!
@camomom (7537)
• United States
5 Sep 08
dump the b***h, she is not your friend!!! keep her away from your man. good luck and best wishes.
@rustantl (258)
• United States
5 Sep 08
Thanks I have not spoken to her since when she calls I just reject it...I agree with you
• United States
26 Aug 08
A true friend will not do anything to hurt you, betray you or make things behind your back. If you think you could not trust this person, there is no other reason why you have to have her in your life. if she has been hitting with your man, in front of you and your friends, she could probably do more without your presence. try to talk to her personally and tell her that you don't like what she is doing and that if she wanted to continue being friends, she might as well stop flirting with your man. I hope this helps, just my opinion.
@rustantl (258)
• United States
27 Aug 08
Thank you so much!
@spalladino (17926)
• United States
26 Aug 08
You can't trust her, she knows that you can't trust her, so you should dump her as a friend because she isn't one. She made moves on your man strong enough to make him uncomfortable and there's really no excuse for that.
@rustantl (258)
• United States
26 Aug 08
I agree Thank you! I would not even date my friends exe let alone hit on him when they were still together but I am a very forgiving and understanding person sometimes a gift sometimes a curse lol