Are Plus Size Women At The Bottom Of The Chain

United States
August 27, 2008 4:45pm CST
Are Full figured women less likely to find love than a smaller sized woman? I was wondering because I see so many insecure women that are beautiful. Whats going on out here. Are they not as sexy as the next woman? They are worthy of being loved as well right? This scares me to see so many people with low self esteem.Would you consider a plus sizes woman fat or consider her as an indivdual?
5 responses
@sweetie1026 (1723)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
No i don't think that is true. I am a plus size woman myself but i have never felt less worthy to be loved.I am a single mom but i have had men after me as a plus size woman. Being sexy doesn't always mean you have to be the right size and fit. It is in the person's attitude and the way she carries herself. I have seen and known other plus sized women who are in happy relationships with great looking guys, if you care to know. I am too and yes my guy is good looking and i am sure he really loves me.
• United States
28 Aug 08
I'm a plus sized woman and I definitely for the most part don't feel as comfortable around a lot of people has skinny women do. I feel more like people try to avoid me or the like because I'm a bigger woman. I've noticed for the most part, guys avoid talking to me and will talk more to smaller women. Girls for the most part don't really have an issue but men do.
@anna0076 (45)
• United States
27 Aug 08
The society makes people think big is ugly and not attractive. Media plays a big part is everyones life, like it or not it is true. Commercials, magazines, billboards etc. all show you small women. Models are pretty right? Well, only tall, young and super skinny girls can be models. Therefor, women feel insecure because not every one has that look. Besides, men are so shallow theses days. They want women to be pretty, skinny, have a good personality and it also would be nice if they had some money. A lot of times, pretty girls are conceited because they know they are pretty and can get whatever they want. "not-so-pretty girls" are usually nice because the are unsecured about their looks. Either way, most men are only after one thing and one thing only. They don't want commitment, they want to have fun. And how come it's ok for a guy to be chubby or plus size or whatever you call it, but women are just not attractive when they are big. I say, who cares what men think, they're dogs anyways. Except dogs are loyal and most men are not.
@donna22 (1120)
27 Aug 08
To me size is like hair colour, height etc. Some looks are attractive to certain people while some are not. It is all a question of taste really. The sterotypical look of an attractive female is blonde hair, blue eyes, small waist, big boobs etc but that does not mean that all men are going to go for that look same as the sterotypical image of a good looking man is tall dark and handsome but it does not mean that all women want a man who looks like this. A lot of the women who you see are probbaly insecure because of their size and it is this that may put potential lovers off them.
@3cardmonte (5098)
27 Aug 08
one of the most beautiful women i have ever seen is a plus size woman, bigger women are just as sexy as smaller women. I personally prefer bigger women but that just my opinion, i like curves and lots of em!