I would like some advice.

@dhisaw (304)
United States
August 27, 2008 11:05pm CST
I have been married for almost six years. So far we do not have any children. We both would love to have children. i know that a lot of people would say that we would need to go to a doctor. I am hoping for some advice that does not involve a doctor. Now intimate relations is not in question because we know to have intimate relations and that kind of thing. I am also wanting to know if there is someway to know if you have a hormone imbalance without going to a doctor. The thing is I am not able to go to a doctor. The reason being insurance and money and the fact that we have a lack of both. This is the reason i would like to know if anyone has any tips or anything like that. Any help would be very appreciated.
2 responses
@sedel1027 (17868)
• United States
28 Aug 08
You can track your temperature http://www.ovulation-calculator.com/basal-body-temperature.htm or track your cervical mucus http://www.ovulation-calculator.com/cervical-mucus.htm Those will let you know if you are ovulation. Beyond that, you would need to see a Doctor for additional test.
@dhisaw (304)
• United States
28 Aug 08
I dont know much about keeping track of my temperature or cervical mucus. As well as i dont know if that would really work for me considering that there are times that my menstral cycle is not normal so to speak. There are times when i dont have a cycle. that is why i am not sure whether or not that would work for me.
@sedel1027 (17868)
• United States
28 Aug 08
There is a tea you can try out called Feamle Toner that may help you get your cycles straught. Helped me out a lot when my cycles got really out of control.
• Australia
28 Aug 08
I have a friend who's almost seven years married but still don't have a baby..I think, you and your partner should go to a doctor. For you to know what's wrong or if there's any way to possibly have a baby. I believe that it's not really complete if you have no baby, especially to a mother like you. I understand what you feel. Another thing is, don't forget GOD above all. I know that there's a reason for every trials that we had encountered.
@dhisaw (304)
• United States
28 Aug 08
Right now i know i should go to a doctor but we dont have the means to do so at this point. As for not feeling really complete without a baby I do. It upsets me sometimes to a point that i start feeling like i dont want to go around other people that have a baby already. As for GOD, I do think there is a reason for everything and he has a plan for us. He may just want us to wait to have a child. When people ask us when we are going to have one we usually tell them we will have one whenever GOD is ready for us to have one.