What would you feel if you're getting left behind by your friends?

Philippines
August 28, 2008 5:57am CST
What would you feel if it seems like you're not in jive with the group, without them being conscious about it..? Would you still continue to hangout with them? What if other people would notice that you're getting out of place within the group? What would you feel about it?
5 responses
@jolope (988)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
thats kind of sad.. but you know..some people are not supposed to fit in, but to stand out.. maybe being around people who you dont have anything in common with will let you learn more of the world.. if i was in this situation though, i think i'd leave the group..i mean, im not even into socializing..but if i feel that they dont want me around..then i dont want to be around them either..there are a lot of people having same interests as mine, and i wont waste more of my time hanging out with people who wont treat me well.. you feeling like that davidsanchez.. *im guessing your name is david and your surname is sanchez..hehe:)* stay happy..:)
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@jolope (988)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
*you feeling like that davidsanchez?? not -..- :)
@corngrass (727)
• Malaysia
28 Aug 08
Hi there! When I'm still in school bench. It happens a lots. Because I'm not the out-going type, so i'm often left out. Do i still hangout with them, no i don't! When I confirm that I had been left out by them, I will not return to them anymore. It's better to be alone than to be left alone. What do you think?
@jolope (988)
• Philippines
28 Aug 08
haha.. good point there corngrass.. it really is better to be alone..i mean, its a preference.. rather then trying to be with people that wont let you in..being left alone is depressing..
@Anchopy (1453)
• Paraguay
28 Aug 08
I think I will just step aside, leaving the group and try to make new friends.. there is no point to try to belong into a group that thinks bad about you.. or thinks that you don't belong to them.. do the same think.. let them know that you don't need them..
@know21 (1252)
• United States
28 Aug 08
If I felt out of place in any certain group then its maybe because I don't belong in that group, and it would be time to find another group of friend I would feel comfortable with. I wouldn't want to belong to a group I didn't feel comfortable with.
@magna86 (1787)
• India
28 Aug 08
well i wouldn prefer to be in such a group!! otherwise i would talk it out with my friends.. regarding their behavior!!! if the matter is not sorted then i would move out of the group!! and make new friends!!! i don prefer to stay in a place where i am not needed!!!