• United States
31 Aug 08
I have been cheated on. The short story is that I decided to hook up with a childhood friend. I just didn't know at the time that he was dating three other girls, who were all unaware of the situation. To make things interesting, he hooked up with an ex-girlfriend, and failed to tell me. The ex-girlfriend, now his girlfriend, was well aware of what her boyfriend was doing.
28 Aug 08
Hello, I have been in a number of situations where cheating is involved. I have been cheated on and I have been the girl that the guy has cheated with. I have never cheated on someone myself as I know what it feels like and i would never wish it on anyone. I was fairly young when my boyfriend cheated on me but i really liked him and spent quite a bit of time with him and when I found out he has cheated on me I was crushed. My best friend actually was the one who told me that he was cheating on me so the little runt didn't even confess himself! Being in a situation where you are the girl that the guy is cheating with is a little awkward. In all instances, I never knew. It always starts out by me meeting this great guy who says he's single and we hit it off and like each others company. Then a few weeks to a month later, I start getting the phone calls from angry girls claiming that they are the guy's girlfriend and that they don't appreciate me stealing him from them and that I'm every single name in the dictionary. I usually sit there and let them go off on me for a bit and then explain to them that HE told me that HE was single and that if I knew he was with someone, I wouldn't have wanted to step on anyone's shoes so I would have backed off. Then I proced to tell them that it's not me that cheated anyways, it's their man and why are they so mad at me for their guy being a pig. I loose either way though because if the girl stays with the pig, then i'm not with him and if she doesn't then I still don't want to be with him as he has cheated on his gf and could do it to me. So all in all, cheating sucks and I never got it. If you don't like the person you are with, then break up with them and move on, don't hurt them so badly by cheating on them.