im in a relationship, but im being inlove with another girl, is this normal?

Papua New Guinea
August 29, 2008 8:38am CST
I'm feeling crazy these days folks. I am actually engaged in a relationship already but my heart can't seem to stop loving another girl. I am sure that I love my current girlfriend very much. But every time I see this particular girl, my heart stomps - a feeling that I only feel when I'm truly in love. Am I insane or what? What could possibly be the reason why I am feeling this way. My girlfriend is hot, kind and rather sexy. I'm so confused!
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@eztuner (451)
• United States
29 Aug 08
Friend, you are not insane you are just greedy you want ALL! Don't do onto others what you don't want to be done onto you! If you feel confused, stop, try to be with your self, and find out who is the one your heart really miss the must. Love is a Precious thing, should not be taken lightly, If you do, you'll miss the beauty of it! Wish you clarity to take the best decision.
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• Papua New Guinea
29 Aug 08
am i greedy?or just my heart?i did not think any intentions of making out with another girl for the sake of "greediness" towards relationship. but your advice helps. thanks buddy.
@rustantl (258)
• United States
29 Aug 08
You are in quiet a predicament...All I can say is the heart wants what the heart wants...As nice as it would be we can not control who we fall in love with...do you think with one of them it might just be the lust thing?...I am far from a relationship expert so I wish i could help you out more than this but I just don't know...I do not think you are insane though by any means you are just human!...Good luck with this and I hope you get it all figured out!
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• Papua New Guinea
29 Aug 08
it is not buddy. my girlfriend is so damn hot like i've said. but anyway, thanks for the advice. i'm so in trouble.
@applefreak (3131)
• Singapore
29 Aug 08
well if you have to choose you don't have to choose. You might not understand what I'm try to say. If one is truely in love he won't ever need to choose. If you are not sure who you love more you actually don't love either of them. Maybe you are with your girlfriend because she looks good. But have you ever thought about how you really feel about her? Looks like it's time to do so. Cheers ;)