I am bad at regular touch with friends or am I

India
August 29, 2008 3:24pm CST
I love frineds and enjoy thier company like anything. But I am not regular visiter or make calls to them. ofcource i repond to them in all the way. I would like to change this in myself. what about you, how do you in regular contact? do you really maintain good/regular relationship with them?
3 responses
@joimarquez (1840)
• United States
29 Aug 08
im almost like you...i dont communicate or initiate hanging out with my friends...im always with my boyfriend so he's somewhat my hang-out buddy too..we used to have friends that we always hang out to, but somehow we drifted apart after we all changed jobs...we occassionally email (eventhough we're just 15mins away from each other)...we email like we are worlds apart..
• India
29 Aug 08
mmm thats true, we are almost same in this. Hope there will be a spot that every one can reach to communicate at a time.
@Rintis (646)
• India
29 Aug 08
Before marriage and a kid, I have always tried to maintain regular contact with all my friends no matter what. Even if they never bothered to call back or forget I was still keeping touch. But now I do forget because of lack of time. But I do try and call them up on special occasions or at least send them e-cards. It is very difficult to keep in touch if you are a full time mother and self employed too.
• India
29 Aug 08
Yes, i agree with you. Being a single still am unable to manage it.
• United States
29 Aug 08
Fortunately my friends and I all like limited contact. We only want to speak at lunch or via email. We are all middle aged and have responsiblities and don't have time like we did when we were young. Like I said, we meet for lunch now and then and we email jokes, and life updates and every few months we go out to dinner.