how do we become a good wife?? please help me

Philippines
August 30, 2008 6:02am CST
i really do not know how.. i was a little anxious because my friend went to the fortune teller with me and the fortune teller said my husband will leave me. how do i stop it from happening?? please help me..
5 responses
• India
30 Aug 08
i dont believe in such fortune tellets or numerology or anything like that. good or bad depends on their on donings. i think nobody can predict the future. everything will be on god's hand. so pray well.and never allow anybody to cheat ot hurt u.may god bless u to live a good life happily with ur beloved.
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• Philippines
31 Aug 08
thank you very much for that advise.. it really is very helpful to pray and put things in God's hands.. thank you very much
@shooie (4984)
• United States
30 Aug 08
I don't believe in fortune tellers. Those people tell you things and then watch your body lanuage and the look on your face and then go from there. I have a friend that believes in them and her marriage will never work and she will never work on keeping her marriage together because of the woman she goes to. To me it is a waste of money.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
30 Aug 08
Have you sat him down to tell him how much you love him and you don't want it to end? Sad thing is his family needs to stay out of it and he needs to grow up and live his own life without his family controlling his life. Sad thing is if his family splits you guys up they'll split his next marriage up and the next. He needs to grow up and cut the apron strings. Unless he has truly fallen out of love with you and there is more to the story than has been shared.
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
yeah i have noticed that too that everytime she (the fortuneteller) makes a vision, she tells it to me but when i disagree, she kind of changes her "vision" to make it more appropriate since i do know myself. and one more thing, you might be a fortune teller yourself because you knew that my husband is still tightly tied to his family and i even thought he would choose his family over our own, new,little family. and i hate to think about it.. it's just that his family still needs him very much and that he may have thought we don't need him that much because of the fact that we live in my parent's house.. i really am anxious to live separately with him and stant on our own.
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
and one more thing is that the fortune teller even told me i should put a spell to my husband so he will not leave me.. oooh.. i hate her... i trust my husband and would like him to live his own life at his own free will..
@anita27 (90)
• India
31 Aug 08
hi kclaret59!tell me do you know that fortune -teller more than your husband?no,right.if you still believe her then you have to tell youreself 1000 times in a day that this is never going to happen.believe your god.he'll help you.& few things you have to try from yourself.i.e. always try to please him by making tasty dishes & keeping the house prim-proper & not neglecting yourself i mean try to look beautiful&neaty dressed & most important love your husband unconditionally.you will feel the change.best of luck!
• Pakistan
30 Aug 08
dnt beleive in such thing... do the things with good intentions.... and you will see the magic
• India
30 Aug 08
Hi dear it all depends on ur husband's nature. husband wife relationship keep maintained till the interference of the third person in their life. and these person are mostly girl or boy's parents. so do always ur best. never disobey ur husband. it doesnt mean that u should obey all whether it is wrong or right. and try not to involve ur n ur hubby's parents in ur life. give full respect to them but do not allow so much interference of them in your life.
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
yeah good thing you have emphasized that because actually, we really are living with my parents.. that's making matters worse because he is living in my parents' house. but he is thinking of living out maybe by next year. yeah it really is hard because most of the time, decisions are made not by him but my prents and we cannot argue because of the fact that we are under their roof.. too bad thank you for the response