Do you have any siblings? If so, are close with them?

August 30, 2008 11:01pm CST
I have two sisters and I really love them but of course petty fights among us are inevetable. Currently, My oldest sister is working abroad who calls us everytime she has free time from her work. I am with my youngest sister and we used to be closer than my oldest sister. Actually we had serious fight before that made us not to talk for about couple of months. As of now, our family and even our sister have no idea that we are not talking but of corse as her older sister I want our relationship as sisters get back the way it used to be. I really miss her. So mush astually.
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@anita27 (90)
• India
1 Sep 08
hi sendoh_07!!!i've 1 younger brother,who stays very far from me.in childhood days we use to have lot of fights between us.our parents use to make us understand that when we grow up & get away from each other for studies 7 jobs we could hardly meet each other.that's rightly they said.we meet once in a year that just for 3-4 days that's it. i miss him so much.despite of fights we share a special bond with each other.now that we are far from each other we show our respect,love & care.i stay alone with my kid as his father is on ship.my brother calls me daily just to know that i'm fine.dont worry dear,blood relations cannot break so easily.your sister will definitly talk to you.the only thing you have to do from your side is to make her understand that you care for her & you will be with her no matter what.
1 Sep 08
You know what anita27, I really appreciate your suggestion. Actually, though we are not in good terms I make it a point to feel her that I am still here for her and nothing change. I guess both of u need an ample time to think and realize what went wrong with u and I am really hoping that our relationship go back again the way it used to be. Thanks and God bless!
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
1 Sep 08
Hi friend,I have one younger brother.He is not much close to me.He is married with kids.Even though he is not so close I feel he has affection for me.Thanks for sharing,Happy mylotting.
1 Sep 08
So a to you folk. Thank and God bless!
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
i have my one and only older brother...he's 24 now..and im 18 and i love him ofcourse.. he is now currently working in a hospital...not far from us.. anywayz..me and my bro have much shared a lot of things in common.. especially when selecting movies..we like the same thing..food..hmm..not quite! im a gurl here..we sometimes argue on some stupid things..but we end up kicking and punching to each other..lol..hehe i really miss my kuya and ofcourse the whole family..im here in the city..and they are in the province..but i still got time talking to them..and i sometimes..go home on weekends.. i cared much my brother and my parents coz..they were the precious things in me that cannot be replaced..heheh.,..
1 Sep 08
Yeah nicebelle. Our families are the best people in the whole world. Thanks again and God bless! Happy mylotting!
31 Aug 08
I don't have any siblings, though I grew up with a boy whose Mum was very good friends with my Mum. We kind of adopted each other and still look out for each other now!
1 Sep 08
Well i mist say that you are really a sweet sibling. Anyway, thanks and God bless creative_genius.
@ram_cv (16516)
• India
31 Aug 08
I have a brother and I do love him very much. Since, younger days we are used to fighting each other whenever a chance crops up and then getting together to plan a mischief of pull the wool over someone else's eyes. Both of us are now living in two different parts of the world half a world apart!! But, still as and when we catch up, we have lots of fun together. Cheers! Ram
31 Aug 08
You are blessed because you have brother but in our case we want to have another sibling but we want a baby boy. Unfortunately, my mom can't bear baby because she is ligated already. Anyway, thanks for sharing. God bless!
@gbeast95 (505)
• United States
27 Sep 08
you are lucky. my brother treats me like garbage. he wants one thing from me and the next he wants another thing from me. and he is younger so he always has parents on his sides. once when he got my dad angry i had to take the punishment it was a very harsh punishment, guess what he didn't get a punishment.
@allurejan (197)
• United States
1 Sep 08
To tell you frankly, siblings are more important then friends to me. So as much as possible, I'll take time to talk to them. I am doing my best to be close to my siblings because years have passed I wasn't with them when they're growing up.
@razor123 (979)
• India
31 Aug 08
Yes i have an elder brother and I love him very very much. He is another state within the country dong him MBA. I miss him a lot since he's been away for over 1 and half year now. When he was here we used to argue, fight a lot and stuff but after he has gone i really miss all that Hehehehe... We used to generally fight for using the computer as we have only one computer at home.
@tammytwo (4303)
• United States
31 Aug 08
I have one brother and I see him only occasionally even though we live in the same town. Our lives tend to keep us busy and he is somewhat of a home body on his days off.
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
Yes I have, I have two older brother and sister. Even though they are quite older than me,my older sister is 10 years older than me whereas my brother is 8, were really close. Yes, we do fight sometimes, it seems inevitable in the family, but after a day or two, were fine again and as if we didn't fight at all. I am really thankful and glad to have siblings like them.
@austere (2816)
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
yes, i have plenty of siblings!!! we are seven siblings in the family. i am 3rd. our elsdest is a female, the next is a guy, our eldest brother, then me..after me is a younger brother, then a younger sister, then two younger sisters.. we are a big happy family, we are happy and we enjoy each other. well, we have few petty fights too, like normal brothers and sisters but then, we are happy most of the times!
@lilcee (2704)
• United States
31 Aug 08
I come from a big family. I'm the youngest of 9. Seven girls and two boys. I used to be real close to them being the youngest. But I moved to FL 28 yrs ago and they all live in NY so I don't get to see them much any more. Most of them still live there except for one sister who lives in Michigan. There are lots of Grandchildren and great-Grandchildren. It's been a few years since I've been able to get to NY for a family reunion. Hopefully I'll be able to do it next time.
@syankee525 (6294)
• United States
31 Aug 08
there are four of us, my sister is oldest, then i got two brothers and me. my one brother closest to my age don't speak to no one but to my sister, he's one of those who he think is better, treat my dad bad and will speak to our dad. he feel like he talk to anyone anyway he wants, and no one should get upset him. but my older brother who has his own company allow me to do some work to help us out with money. i am closer to my sister and my older brother
• India
31 Aug 08
i only have a brother and his younger than me yes i love him but we are not that close... still, we spent time with each other... i just can't tell it to him
@hellcowboy (7383)
• United States
31 Aug 08
When it comes to siblings I have a half brother but that is it and he is eleven years older than me,so me and him have never been close,I have seen a lot of pictures of me as a baby,and him holding me,even though when he was younger he spent a lot of time in jail for crimes just as grand theft auto,and right now he lives a good distance away so we hardly ever see him,and plus now he is married with two step kids so his life is probably busy.
@MissGia (955)
• United States
31 Aug 08
I have 2 older sisters. We were all 3 very close when we were younger, we had no brothers. Today we are all adults and we all live in different states. My oldest lives in North Carolina, I love her very much; she has helped me through some very difficult times in my life. My other sister lives in Indiana which is close to me. Shes a workaholic so i don't see her too often. I consider us all still close, even though we are all very busy and live apart from each other. I think it's very important for siblings to maintain good relationship.One day they might be the only thing you have.
@corngrass (727)
• Malaysia
31 Aug 08
I have two younger sister who are still in school bench. We also used to have fights and argument but we are fine the next morning. We have strong bonding among each another. We love each other very much. Don't worry, you and sister will be fine. Give each other some time to cool down first. Then take the step to start to connect the relationship again. Blood is thicker than water. Sister are born to be sister. No rules can break that. =)