What is your most heart-breaking love story?

Philippines
August 31, 2008 9:14pm CST
Weeping because of past. What is you unforgettable and most heart-breaking love story in your life? Does it affect you as a whole and your personal insight and views in life?
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@raidangz (19)
• India
21 Jan 09
Few years back i met a girl on the internet. in few months time we got very close and were madly in love. we met twice before she left for Denmark to pursue higher studies. Few days later she broke up with me citing family reasons. but as i could not accept that, i began writing her mails to persuade her. but she never cared to reply. i requested her, begged her but she never cared. one day we met online on yahoo messenger and began chatting. she told me that she was still in love with me but then she wouldn't be able to return in my life as her family was opposed to our relationship. then again she called up one day and cried telling she wasn't happy to see us fall apart. sometimes she would say that she wanna return back and sometimes she would say that she wouldn't be able to return. it continued this way for few months till i finally decided to give up. I changed my phone number and also got new email addresses for myself. but one day i found her instant messages on yahoo as I logged into my old account to see if somebody had written to me. but i wrote her back telling her bluntly that i was not gonna give her my number and that we should not talk, chat or exchange mails anymore. telling her so, i found myself in tears..From then onwards we never got in touch. I was still in love with her but I had to give up as the relationship was going nowhere. It was very hard for me to say those final words to her as i was and i'm still in love with her though we parted ways a year back..that's the saddest part of my life..
• United States
18 Aug 10
Hi This is very touching. I sincerely feel you should go ahead and give it a chance. It just seems to me both of you are still in love with each other. U still cry for her and she still does the same. My experience says if you miss someone so much in a long distance relationship (without seeing the other person for so long) your love is pure and true. Keep giving it a chance until one of you finds that you no longer cry missing the other person. Only then give it up. But I say don't give up right now. U will miss her all your life even if you are with someone else for the rest of your life.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
The most heart breaking story I had was my puppy love.., (that's how I used to call it before) but now I realized it was just an infatuation.., a terrible one.., I had this crush when i was still 12 years old.., I really liked him a lot.., and everybody in school knows it because I was really opened about it.., But he never returned my feelings for him.., He keeps on breaking my young heart over and over again.. that time.., He was my reason for going to school.., He occupies my mind all day long..=) and I had this huge crush on him until I was 19 years old..,, and one day I learned that he was getting married..I thought I was over him that time but a single tear fell behind the smile.., and I moved on..=(
@shannon76 (1232)
• United States
1 Sep 08
The man I was dating before my husband was my most unforgettable. I hate the fact that I still wonder about him (what he's up to, ect.) I would never take him back nor would I EVER want to rekindle the relationship with him, but I still have feelings for him and I hate it. I hate that I still sometimes cry because he hurt me. I have been married to my husband for over 3 years now and I am happily married. Its just weird.
• New Zealand
1 Sep 08
I've been with this girl for about two years... we were not officially together but we have this special connection... we were sort of a packaged deal... she's everything to me... my best friend... my sister... my mother... basically everything... people are not used to seeing us not together and if that happens they immediately sense that there is something wrong... well I love this girl so much... it's like I've courted her for more than a year before she too fell for me... but before that relationship could reach six months which also counts two years of our friendship she sort of broke up with me... it was hard because we belonged to same group of friends... I was close to her family and so was she to mine... and there were a lot of things that keeps us together even if our relationship was already over... it was hard for me to move on... in fact our break up just reached six months and I'm still not over her... though when people see us at school it's like nothing really happened... but our closest friends know the truth... anyway it made me change a lot... it made my views differ from how I thought of things before... now I learned that even if you give your loved one everything... your heart... our mind.. your soul... still it won't be enough... specially if it started as a one sided love... meaning if it started that way it might end up that way... you can try to be perfect for her... but you can never be perfect for her if you're not what she's really looking for... you can give her the world... but still she won't be able to reciprocate that exactly as you want it to be... you may risk everything even your own life and identity but you can never expect that she will do the same thing for you... love does make the world go round... but it can also make it stop...
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
...hmmm it happened in my first bf, gosh, our relationship is almost 2years but he just betrayed me, his name is Maak, for all I know. But at the end, I found out that his real name is Ryan, we hadn't broke up, but we have no communications until now...