Will you stop his/her wedding?

@JannaLee (660)
Philippines
September 1, 2008 10:59am CST
If you're really in love with someone and he's about to get married, would you stop his wedding? What if you came in between their long and boring relationship? Let's say you had a great time and fell in love in a weeks time, but you arrived too late.What if your five minutes scandal will change your live forever? Would you stop the minister from presiding the ceremony? Do you think it's worth trying? What's your opinion about this?
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4 responses
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
NO! well i am such a coward to start with ... somewhat similar situation happened to me but no wedding , i didn't have the heart to break up a 3 year relationship ....long distance one.... i have loved the guy for 8 years and when i finally had the chance... it didn't feel right... i was afraid of karma....of the same thing happening to me or worst my sisters....or someone really close to me sometimes i still think about him, if i chose right.... i am happy now, really happy but there is still a part of me wishing ... what might have been...
@JannaLee (660)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
Wow, you made a great sacrifice...I mean it was so selfless of you to let go of the man that you loved. 8 years is not a short time, and yet you did set him free, no matter how much you cared for him^^ I hope you're at your best now, and you will be blessed for the noble act that you did^^
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
honestly i still think he was the one for me.... you know the kind you read in novels - the physical attraction and the other unexplainable coincidences.... but i have found a new love... a love that was just for me... thanks
@SHAMRACK (8350)
• India
1 Sep 08
Dear friend, I would stop the wedding if I find that she love me more than any and if I confident enough that I could give a better life and more than that if she will come with me. If I could convey my part and if my scandal could make us live together I would try my bes to stop it and all these things I would do only if she loves me and if I am sure she will be with me.
@JannaLee (660)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
If it's worth fighting for, then I guess walking down the aisle to stop the wedding is a thing that I would also do..^^
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
id rather talk to future groom before his wedding day. i mean, why sould i wait for his wedding day whereas i could go and tell him right away that i love him?
@JannaLee (660)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
I see, that's a better option...telling him the day before is indeed less awkward and less stressful too^^
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
For the guy also loves me and wants me, he also should do an action about that...It's easy to fall inlove,but before you destroy others life (because he's getting married!)you should asked your self first if you can carry all the consequences might happen. ..But if we really love each other and we don't care if we'll hurt other people, i'll fight for him!as he'll fight for me also...
@JannaLee (660)
• Philippines
1 Sep 08
I agree...It takes two to tango and the groom should indeed do his part..Running away with the new lady will hurt the one he left on the altar...but if the love is indeed very strong and is worth fighting for, therefore nothing is sweeter than running away and facing the world together against all odds..^^