do you and your other always know where each other is?

@jhl930 (3605)
United States
September 1, 2008 3:29pm CST
i have heard of some couples that tell each other everything and they pretty well know where each other is at all times of the day and that is really good if you are that close and you tell each other that much, i mean most of the time me and my girlfriend know where each other are and the times that we don't we always tell each other that night what we did, and where we went and things like that because at night is when we do most of our talking, its just how it is and how its always been between us, but i have heard of some couples that have said they didn't want to always know where each other was...so what about all of you, do you and your other always know where each other is, or not...thanks for taking the time out of your day to read and hopefully reply to my discussion, i hope that you all had a great day and evening and i hope that your night is really great too, thanks again for reading and hopefully replying to my discussion!
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@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
1 Sep 08
Boyfriend and I like to tell each other where we are going or where we've been. Sometimes we just tell each other what we're going to do and not where we're going. If he goes out with his guy friends, he would tell me what the general plan is but once in a while would tell me afterwards the specifics of where they went and what happened. It's the same with me when I go out with my friends. I think it's nice for couples to be open and honest with each other but sometimes, you also need to do your own thing and be with your own friends.
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@jhl930 (3605)
• United States
1 Sep 08
i agree with you and that is what we do, if we don't tell each other before hand we will tell each other after, i think its good too, thanks for taking the time to reply to my discussion!
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@syankee525 (6294)
• United States
2 Sep 08
pretty much we do. my wife is always home and she knows where i am working at. i call her through the day to make sure she's alright
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@anawar (2406)
• United States
1 Sep 08
My relationship ended about nine months ago. There were several times in the relationship when I didn't know where he was. I'm not the kind of person that checks up on people during the day. When he came home, he came home. He talked about his day, but I learned later, that he wasn't always telling the truth. I feel so sad, I don't know what else to say! travel lightly, anawar
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• United States
2 Sep 08
Sometimes we do know where each other is, and sometimes, we do not know where each other is, but that is okay because we should have time to ourselves and we should both have our space. We should not have to have anyone's permission to do anything.
@shana123 (2096)
• India
2 Sep 08
My guy doesnt tells me everytime where he goes because he is in abroad even if he says me i wont know where and which place he is .. he just says me he went out or he is out with his friends thats all but i will tell him everything like where i am what i am doing etc because the place which im now residing is well known by him and its pretty easy for him to recognize the place when i tell him.. and its really necessary and good to keep our loved ones informed like where we are and what we are doing some people dont do it , and if their loved one is not worried about that then they can keep going if their loved one is expecting them to be informed then it is necessary to let them know .. even i have come across some guys who never says where they are what they do some girls really dont care about that and some really does...
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Well I work in the fields usually different offices and I really don't have time to call her up even she's just at home she also goes out buying things for us what we needed everyday. She also has her own business to manage at home. Usually I go home really early 8 p.m. so we have dinner together and talk about what happened that day, any problems that we discussed together. I think we just trust each other. Sometimes we don't talk anymore about where did we went that day, we just talk about things to do and more on us. Have a nice day!
@Hatley (164471)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Sep 08
hi jhl I am a widow now but when my hubby was alive we just made it a point to know where each other was specially when you have children. being married I think makes people more likely to want to know the whereabouts of each person. If something comes up that one of us did not know where the other one was, we always made it a point to call and let them know.It was not any over posseiveness but just safety sakes. We cared about the other person and wanted to be sure they were okay.