life is really really short.

@aendzie (571)
Philippines
September 1, 2008 8:39pm CST
Me and my hubby had just been through a week of gatherings and partying. We got home Sunday really really tired, went to bed and totally knocked out without even saying good night with each other. Then I woke up with a loud noise, my brother in law is shouting, my husband was stabbed on the chest.I was in awe,we were just sleeping, he was just beside me, And now he's gone. I was shocked!we were very shocked!nobody wants to believe it. He's been gone for 9 days now, and I can still hear people talking about him saying he's not gone and he's still alive in their hearts. Life is really really short, before we know it our loved one has been called by God. So before the time runs out, hug your love, the one you cherish the most, your parents,your boyfriend, sisters,brothers, bestfriend or love yourself. So you won't feel like you haven't given enough.
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@relundad (2312)
• United States
2 Sep 08
OMG. Sorry for your loss. I know that this "story" is very real for you. We all take for granted that this type of thing only happens to other people on the news. You are right in that we never know when that days comes that you won't have another opportunity to tell your loved ones good night, or that you love them. Thats why its so important to live everyday like its your last day, because you never know when it will be. I pray that you find comfort in this trying time.
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Thanks for the prayers, I am very very depressed but I'm trying to keep myself up because I have to be strong for him. I know he's happy now that he has the chance to be with me all the time. He is now my guardian angel.
• United States
3 Sep 08
im sorry for what happened to you, but you are right, life is short and people should enjoy every moment of it, otherwise they will let it slip away without even knowing.
@ajrox1810 (992)
• India
2 Sep 08
It is true what you said, completely. Life is really short and we should always hug our nearer and dearer ones before it is too late. I was really sorry to hear about your husband, and I hope you find the murderer soon. I don't know why people do all this? What do they get by committing these sins? Even I lost my Grandfather and before I could even see him last time, he was gone. But your husband will live forever in your heart, and I just hope that his soul rests in peace. He would be missing you too, from a place up above. You are not alone...
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
thanks for the comfort. I miss him so much that until now, I felt that he's alive. I couldn't believe what had happened and I couldn't accept it. But I always think that he is with me, all the time. And that would make me feel good. I do hope wherever he is,.he's happy with God. God bless his soul.
2 Sep 08
I am so sorry for your loss, especially in such awful circumstances. I hope the killer is found, please accept my condolences. It must all feel like a blur to you.
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@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
true, I hope the killer be caught. that's the only thing that would make me feel better. I hope everything will be alright soon.
• China
2 Sep 08
OMG!!!I sorry to hear that.Life is lost,flower fall. I wish you will be strong.Because you still have many close relatives and friend to love.
• China
2 Sep 08
I feel not good when I writing these words.please take care of you health.
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Thanks for the concern. I know my hubby won't be happy if I don't take care of myself as much as he took care of me when he was alive. He loved me so much and so I have to be strong for him. I know I have lots of friends here who are concern and the family and friends around me who's always ready to support in this time of grief. God bless his soul.
@sudalunts (5527)
• United States
2 Sep 08
My condolences to you for the loss of your husband. I agree life is really short. Your story is a little confusing though. If you and your husband were in bed, how did he get stabbed in the chest? Did he get up and go out? Did someone break into your house? I hope that the person who stabbed him is caught and that you will be able to lean on God in order to get through this. God bless you
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Thanks for the prayers. Because I was asleep, the witnesses told me that his brother had a fight with someone,and some said he woke him up, some said, he just went out to go to the bathroom and when he found out what was happening, he tried to stop them and by accident he was stabbed. Was very depressing, knowing that he is the kindest person everyone is talking about. That's why our neighbors couldn't accept or believe what had happened. If I could have known ,I should have said good night to him or said I love you's before going to sleep.
@sudalunts (5527)
• United States
2 Sep 08
Honey, I feel so bad for you. I am sure your was a very good man. That is why he was trying to help and defend his brother. I pray that this person will be caught and punished for what he has done. It is too bad that we as a people feel that fighting and taking some innocent person's life is the way to settle their disputes.
• China
3 Sep 08
enjoy your life
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
I hope I can still enjoy it. enjoy your life too, thanks for the response.
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
yeah.,.life is too short,,but dont spend your life in a waste!...only GOD knowswhen will be die!...
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
true, it happens when u least expect it. love the people you are with so there are no regrets. prayers for all our loved ones.
@jovimom (1576)
• United States
3 Sep 08
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope they find who did it. Did whoever do it burglarize your house too? You're right, you never know when you could lose someone close to you. We need to cherish every moment like it's the last...
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
I hope so too, only when the suspect be behind bars my husband soul be in peace. Let's all pray for that.
@lingli_78 (12852)
• Australia
2 Sep 08
OMG!!! i'm so sorry about the loss of your hubby... how did he get killed??? does a burglar or robber sneak into your house and your hubby caught him and that's why he got stabbed??? anyway, my deepest condolences for you and i pray that God will give you and your family the strength to go through this hard time... take care and have a nice day...
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
nope, my husband was just trying to settle things down between his siblings and the suspect. and so he sacrificed for them. There are many if's and should have been done and not,but we cannot control destiny. It's time for him to go,whether we like it or not. It was very sad and tragic but I would just simply pray that we could get over this trial.prayers to all our loved ones.
• United States
2 Sep 08
im so sorry for your loss please keep us posted and let us know when the person who did this is caught youll be in my prayers. just hang in there and have faith in god. and you are right people just need to start taking that extra second to tell the people they care about how they really feel because you never know when that person wont be there anymore. or for that matter when you wont be there anymore.
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
exactly, that's why we have to cherish and love the people while they're still around. I hope the case will be solved too so my husbands soul may be rest in peace. prayers to all our loved ones.
@mhonna (40)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Yeah, life is really, really short. You just have so many things to do, but when it finally ended, you will just know how short it was.
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
indeed.cherish the one you love while they're around.
@insulin (2483)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
Im really sorry to hear about your husband.that is really a terrible thing and a sad thing but I hope the police men will find the killer and yeah punish him of what he did because life is not a game at all.Life is only one and need to be treasured.I'm really sorry for your lost.I hope your ok.
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
I hope I'm ok too. I pray to God that the killer be found so my husbands soul may be rest in peace. prayers for all our loved ones.
@sirnose (2440)
• United States
2 Sep 08
Sorry for your loss my thoughts and concerns goes out to you and your family.Did you and your husband know the killer or was this just a random crime?Yes, life is very short and we should thrive to live every moment to its fullest.Once again sorry for you and your family's loss.
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
we only know the killer by face. That's the irony, my boyfriend was born and grew up in our town and only a stranger who had just lived in our place for quite some time would kill him.There's a rumor that the killer has been hiding in our place coz he already killed two in his town. Very strange but guess I have to accept it, at least we have spent 2 years together. Just cherish the memories.
@klucha (12)
• Ukraine
2 Sep 08
You have to enjoy life all the time. You never know what will happen in a few moments... ;(
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
that's right, we spent the whole week of partying and getting together with families. didn't know it was the last., God bless everybody.
@hiddenwing (3721)
• China
2 Sep 08
So, people should appreciate life anyway
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
right, love life!
2 Sep 08
happy life look shorter,hell life seems much longer. so would you like to choose a short life or a longer one,my son?
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
short life I guess. He is only 35, and I spent 2 years with it. I can say that we were happy. so maybe he had a happy life though it's short.
@razor123 (979)
• India
2 Sep 08
Oh my God. What a horrible way of dieing. I'm really sorry to hear this aendzie. Please accept my deepest sympathies. But didn't your husband scream out lot when he was attacked by the murderer. Or kind of shake you a bit when he was being murdered? I hope the murderer is caught soon and justice is done to your husband. Please take care of yourself and your family. I'm sure things will get back to normal for you'll in due course of time. We will pray for you and your family as well as your husbands soul. May he Rest In Peace. Amen
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
it was so sudden, we got home then went straight to bed. We were sleeping when he heard a commotion outside, he went out trying to settle things down,and then the accident happened. I didn't know anything until the brother screamed and before I knew it, he was rushed to the hospital. I just hope the suspect will be caught. thanks for the prayers.
@Virgie60 (556)
• United States
2 Sep 08
Oh I am so very very sorry. I am so sad for you. You are right that life is short and we should always tell those that we love what they mean to us as you never know. Saying a prayer that you have strength to get through this trying time.
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
thanks for the prayers. I do hope I can getover this soon.
@monkeysay (228)
• Singapore
2 Sep 08
Oh god. Did they find the murderer? Please accept my condolences. I agree that life is really short, we should all live it to the fullest we can. Also we should treasure everyone around us, as we tend not to notice what we have until they are gone. My prayers are with you and your family in these difficult times.
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
thanks for the prayers.I do hope the suspect will surrender or be caught before he would have another victim.
@monkeysay (228)
• Singapore
2 Sep 08
Oh god. Did they find the murderer? My prayers are with you and your family. I agree that life is really short. You never know what you have until it's gone.
@aendzie (571)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
no, the killer is still at large. It's really terrible but I'm just praying for him to surrender so my hubbys soul will be at peace. Thanks for the prayers, we really need it.