Do You Think Marriage with an Older Man or Woman is a Curse

India
September 2, 2008 2:40pm CST
What do u think if you marry a man or woman elder in your age by 5 or 8 years is a curse in the society. I do not think marring with a man or woman more older than you is a curse. These are the feelings lol that you like and fell in love with a man older than you and you want to marry him for life and that too matures in success than marrying a matching age. For me if mature persons marriage it can be more successful than than the the decided by the teenage. Matured have a more experience of life than others. As a man to marry with the older woman than my age is not bad in my own views. you can have different views about this. Please share and discuss.
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5 responses
@spalladino (17925)
• United States
2 Sep 08
Five or eight years is not that big of a difference in age unless one of the parties is 16 or 17. Then there is a difference in maturity. My husband is six years older than I am and we still have many things in common as far as life experiences, music and other forms of entertainment go. The key to any relationship is compatability and age doesn't always play a part in that.
• Indonesia
2 Sep 08
i don't think that's a curse. if so, there will be a huge number of cursed marriages around the world. there are many reason why a man or a woman marry the older partner, and that's oke. i think love plays an important role here.
• United States
2 Sep 08
Older by 5-8 years? No I don't think that is bad at all. My sister is married to a guy about 5 or 6 years older than her...and they have a good marriage. I like a buy that is...about 6 years older than me (a little less). We aren't married but I never think of him as too old. If you're in love...age should matter. And 5-8 year is defeniatly nothing at all!
@glay22 (512)
• Philippines
2 Sep 08
its not a curse.. never.. my boyfriend is 9 years older than i am.. he is 32 and i am 23..but he doesnt look old because he is an athlete, he is very toned. Well, he is my most serious relationship and it really worked out for both of us. He understands me the most and always takes care of me more than anyone has ever did. We are getting married soon, about 3 years from now. When I have already accomplished my goals in life. I have never been this happy in life and no one has ever loved me this way.. only him
• United States
2 Sep 08
No, not really, because some marriages to older men and women actually do work out and turn out to be some of the best marriages.