which will be given importance, appearance or the approaches

India
September 3, 2008 1:04am CST
hi everyone, recently i saw a talk show and the topic is appearances vs approaches.. so whats your opinion.. i can say that the appearances will lay the base and if the appearances is ok, then only we will look at the approaches.. the appearance is the first thing we will look at a person and then only we will look at their aproaches.. so share your thoughts with me
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@narayan2006 (2955)
• India
3 Sep 08
I think,appearance is only one component of one's whole personality and conveys an initial impression on one's image. But, its impact becomes lasting and effective,only when he/she proves his/her worth by displaying other important qualities and traits of nobleness and value.The saying,"All that glitters are not gold" holds its meaning in several cases.The behavioural aspects of a person and his/her approaches to face a real life situatiun should not be ignored,while judging a person's whole personlity.Thanks.
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• India
3 Sep 08
thanks for sharing your views narayanan
@jeanchia (138)
• Malaysia
3 Sep 08
appearance is the first thing we notice, then approach. both are equally important.
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@shana123 (2096)
• India
3 Sep 08
Its quite obvious that all of us totally get attracted towards or first notices the appearance of a person then comes the approach.. but i just cant rely on appearance only.. because many people seem to have good appearance but they dont know how to behave or approach... so i give less importance of appearance and more for approaches.
• India
3 Sep 08
thanks for sharing your views shana
@nengs10 (3188)
• Philippines
3 Sep 08
Appearance matter in a way that we have to look good. That's one thing to get respect and get people's impression on us. Our approaches more as they make our relationship with other people become deeper and better.
• India
3 Sep 08
i do agree with you nengs that approaches only makes the relationship more deeper
@SHAMRACK (8384)
• India
7 Sep 08
Dear friend, A personality of person may be is the better appearance with better approaches and if any of this goes down it would effect his personality but if those approaches are much better and if the appearances are not better I hope it would better too. Still if those both are not there I hope it would be a mess for that person. Hence I feel appearances gives a first evaluation or first impression and the inner quality comes through approaches may the real quality is evaluated by one character or approaches.
@vijbas (369)
• India
3 Sep 08
i too agree with u. appearances do make a good opinion. but the final success definitely depends on the approach u make. this brings a good opinion abt u and will get u a soft corner in ur lover. i dont like the concept of love at first site. no one can love a new person without knowing anything abt them. so the appraoch u make is the final decider
• India
3 Sep 08
Well to say,its the appearance which draw one's attention to someone.If you noticed someone only then you think of him and think of his friendship or approaches.But then appearances only ignite the relationship and its approaches which fan the fire.Thus both the things go hand in hand.