i feel lost and lonely
September 5, 2008 12:53pm CST
hey people.. i have all the relations with me.... firnds, family, hubby, but still i feel alone...and lost... do you people have this feeling? having everyone around still feeeling alone?
5 Sep 08
Yes at one time i felt the same way but along the way I've been in that situation, I made a lot of thinking, or rather reflecting. I try to think about my life, why I felt that way, and what's missing, and the most bold question of all: "what's wrong with me?" But as you said you have all those relationships that you thought would complete you but the real issue is you're bored, you don't know what could make you excite anymore, like what you said you;re lost. As an advice I think you should trace this slowly, go back to your childhood, to your high school, your college and up to now. Think of what you'd be wanting to do ever since that you still haven't done yet. In short find your inner desire what do you really want. Take a trip out of the country and go to places you've never been to with this matter you'll see and learn new things, meet new people and experience new things. try some new hobbies; sports, cross stitches, anything that could slowly work your system! I think you could slowly find your self.
• United States
5 Sep 08
I think our lives tend to do that to us. I have a good wife, A step-daughter that is lazy, but otherwise a good kid most of the time, and 3 dogs. I have a good family. My dad calls me all the time, though we live in different states. I could not ask for a better dad. I don't call him as much as I should. My sister lives in the same state as me, but we are some distance away. We still talk as often as possible. I have relatives from back home that call and check in, and I call them as well. I also have a couple of good friends nearby. Even with all this, I still feel the same way a lot of times. I think it is just the struggle of every-day live that makes us feel this way.
5 Sep 08
The reason you feel alone is because you are isolating yourself from the rest of your world. Try to be more involved with your family. Go out with your hubby sometime. Share your problems with your friends; you may feel better. There is no point really in just feeling alone. Try to analyze whats going wrong. Anyway, hope you feel better soon. :) Search for reasons to smile :)