2 Peas in a pod or opposite attracts... which one for you?

Philippines
September 5, 2008 4:10pm CST
hi there... just curious... if you are in a relationship right now. would you say that you two peas in a pod or opposites attracts? hehehehe...and pls answer why. i am running a survey here... thanks so much and hope to check on many answers later. happy mylotting....
4 responses
• Philippines
6 Sep 08
Hi there. for me, if my partner is just like me, it would be boring. its just like im married to myself.LOL. on the other hand, if we are opposite, we might disagree on a lot of things (it will chaotic, i think). partnership is important in a relationship. you two should be complimenting each other, retaining you individual uniqueness. the weakness of one should be the strength of another and vice versa. this will make the relationship exciting and both of you will grow.
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• Philippines
6 Sep 08
hi there... thanks for the insight... one thing i have observed from the answers i received is just half of being peas in a pod to keep together and enough uniqueness to make it not stagnant. happy mylotting!
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
6 Sep 08
I really thought that Boyfriend and I were opposites the first time we met and the first few months we started going out. But the more we spend time together, I found out that we have a lot in common too. It's good to not see eye-to-eye all the time. If you always agree on all things, then to me, it's just going to get boring. It's also good to share similar tastes and viewpoints because arguing all the time could get rough and you might not find something to do that you both would enjoy.
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• Philippines
6 Sep 08
okay well said. just like the previous reply...just a healthy balance of both. thanks and have a great weekend
@drannhh (15240)
• United States
5 Sep 08
It has to be a little bit of both. If people are too opposite, they will attract suddenly but then the attraction dissipates over time, if they are too much the same the relationship will stagnate. They have to be alike enough to have common ground, but different enough for each to keep pulling the other up so that as a couple they both evolve.
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• Philippines
5 Sep 08
wow... how wonderfully said. just the right amount of both... thanks!!!
@baileycows (3669)
• United States
5 Sep 08
I think we are opposites attract. I am not sure if that works well or not, but we have been together going on almost 4 years. But we have had our problems. But me and my ex husband were alot alike and we still had problems hence the whole exhusband part.
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• Philippines
5 Sep 08
hi there...so reading from your post that being common/uncommon with a special someone is a determinant.. guess working on the relationship and having a partnership is. thanks for mylotting. and i am hapy that your relationship still going strong after four years... :-D