Why Men Stare at Young Woman

India
September 7, 2008 1:30am CST
I am requesting my friends at my lot to give your opinion why men usually stare at the young woman passing by or at public places. Are they attracted towards them and then stare or this is the general tendency. Sparingly some may not but usually I think they do. Does it look good or bad. I have even seen that even while driving a car or a bike they stare at women to whom they pass or passed by them. I have also seen some getting accident also. Do women also stare at men. Let us discuss. I think you will devote some of your valuable time to read and react to respond. Thanks in advance. Please comment.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Sep 08
sweethomecatring men are programmed to checkout women as they are always staring at the nicer looking women as' they might be potenial sexpartners.But what do you do with one you have married for better or worse, that keeps ogling all the pretty girls.Put blinders on him like a horse?my hubby used to say you need to worry when we dont stare, and i would say well stare at me, Im not that bad looking .It did tee me'off as though he were wishing that pretty girl with size 2 clothes was married to him instead of chubby me. He swore he did no such thing but then why stare dammit? we women stare at good looking guys wishing we could meet someone like that. lol.
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• India
7 Sep 08
Hi Dear its just like that we stare at you.Eyes gets attracted to beauty.Women is the prettiest one in the nature.Don't know how god created such wonderfully.These are the words which actually comes out when we stare at women.The way you dress will also be a factor that we guys stare at you.The way you women walk,the way you talk.The way you smile, the way you stare at some one.When a breeze passes by and you adjust your hair.When in traffic you sit calmly in your vehicle.While in college you come and go. When you are walking alone we always think you are always for me.what more to say when eyes look for beauty around and gets caught with you alone....
@mari123 (1861)
• China
8 Sep 08
I think we all stare at girl or woman thatshe is beautiful that you don't see as often ,for example,we stare at drawings, sky's, clouds, rivers, oceans, pictures, etc,they are so strange to stare. but one of the main things we are staring is because we something that we like on place, person, thing and the longer we stare its because we are trying to get a better understanding what attract us, As for does it look good it would have to depend on the person who is being watch does this person he/she think of it as a complement or and unwanted attraction and what can you do to change that do you accept it because it makes you feel good or do you reject it because it makes you very unconformable; and where do we draw the line where the "lookers" start being touchy (I was with my friend once we went to a doughnut store and soon as we went inside we saw these 4 beautiful girls but since we where only two of us we felt little embarrassed yet excited. of course we couldn't really talk to them since we really didn't know what to say or what to do.) well here my thought on this
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
I think both men and women stare at people who are beautiful. Of course we always want to see beautiful things right? Just be careful not to stare at them too long because you might get into an accident or a fight with your partner.
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• United Kingdom
7 Sep 08
Some women that pass you by on the street, they are just so gorgeous that you cannot resist having a good look! I know that I have that weakness in myself! You see a beautiful woman walking by and well it's like, nothing else exists in your world except for that one woman for a short period of time! Then, when she has gone you suddenly return to reality. I guess it's the same for women but I think that they are a whole lot stronger on this subject. They have the strength to resist staring if they see a real hunk!! It's not only about her being gorgeous, I think that a lot of guys like to look at a woman walking by, especially when she has got enormous bazookas!! Just can't help it!! Andrew
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• United States
6 Apr 10
women wear provictive dress then get mad at a man if he looks at her? something wrong with her.
• India
7 Sep 08
I believe, why men stare at young women is, for physical attraction. Here comes another point of the question, and that is "young" women. This is true, men naturally are more attracted to young women than they are attrated to the older ones. This is, too for physical attraction! Younger women are more adorable to men, for they are seen as fresh. If the woman is beautiful, then this beauty multiply the attraction. When men look at a young and beautiful woman in front of him, he stretches his wings of imagination and thinks beyoind limits!!
@joyce959 (1559)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
We ( men and women) look or stare at somebody or something that call or attracts our attention. Usually, we look at something or somebody who is beautiful/ handsome, also beautiful scenery. At the same time, we also stare at people who sometimes catch our attention due to their way of dressing or their behavior, but they are not necessarily beautiful. Oftentimes men stare at young women who are sexy or beautiful, same way there are also women who stare at men who are handsome. It's not bad to stare as long as you don't stare too long that you are already out of focus.
• United States
7 Sep 08
I think we all stare at things that are beautiful that you don't see as often ppl will stare at drawings, sky's, clouds, rivers, oceans, pictures, etc. but one of the main things ppl stare is because we something that we like on place, person, thing and the longer we stare its because we are trying to get a better understanding of what attract us, but at times if you stare too long you lose ur place in reality and you loose ur life. As for does it look good it would have to depend on the person who is being watch does this person he/she think of it as a complement or and unwanted attraction and what can you do to change that do you accept it because it makes you feel good or do you reject it because it makes you very unconformable; and where do we draw the line where the "lookers" start being touchy (I was with my friend once we went to a doughnut store and soon as we went inside we saw these 4 beautiful girls but since we where only two of us we felt little embarrassed yet excited. of course we couldn't really talk to them since we really didn't know what to say or what to do.) well here my thought on this
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@mchavez11 (1406)
• Philippines
7 Sep 08
Its just natural to stare at women in particular. Especially if you like beautiful sceneries, or simply beautiful and pleasant sights. Its not a violation its more of an appreciation. Its just simply nice and symbolic. Women are bound to look good. It brings color to the world.
@Munchkin547 (2778)
7 Sep 08
Hmm i wish i knew!! It can get very irritating!! A few months ago though, i was on the motorway stuck in a traffic jam and the guy in the lane next to me kept starin in at me, it was making me feel really uncomfortable, i tried smiling so as not to be unfriendly but that just made it worse, in the end he was so busy staring at me that he drove into the back of the car in front of him!! he wasn't going fast and i don't think there was a lot of damage, it kind of made me chuckle! Some women like the attention, andi can't deny that sometimes it's nice to feel that people like the way you look but sometimes it is offensive, especially when men stare glaringly for a long period of time or make a comment as you pass! I don't really know why they do it or what they think it is going to achieve, all i know is that the majority of the time i don't like it!! xxx
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@driefbay (17)
• Saudi Arabia
7 Sep 08
women are the most precious gift from god to ours gentlemen. i think staring at them is bad , arrogant or something...were just appreciating their beauties.thats it.is it wrong to admire? u know apprciating the beauty of women is just simply appreciating the beaty of gods love.
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@xphunt3r (244)
• Nepal
7 Sep 08
I am also men. I too stare at young woman. I don't know why i do so. I never like to talk with them except stare. Its come naturally to the men to stare at young woman. Women are always rich in beauty especially young one... They use to wear matching dresses and make themselves the angels of world. These behavior of woman make greedy to man innocent eye. So Men always stare at young women. Its not always fault of man but also young women. ..........
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• United States
8 Sep 08
Reading these comments makes me want to shoot myself in the face.
• Canada
8 Sep 08
Why?
• India
7 Sep 08
men are sick of women, and women are sick of men
• Canada
8 Sep 08
Do you mean lovesick?
@efc872 (1077)
• Jamaica
8 Sep 08
Men tend to admire beauty and will stare without the desire to own her. It is different when a woman stare at a man, she looks him from head to pants front and will hiss her teeth if what she sees doesn't fill her eyes.
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
16 Sep 08
Well, it's a well known fact that men are more interested in the physical emotions as they are greatly stimulated by what they see, and that would explain why they like to look at younger woman (who are in general good looking). Woman also stare at man, and at other woman as well as man watch other man. You can test what i am saying by walking down a crowded area with your friend (some will watch the man some will watch the woman). Another reason are the cloths that the other people wear. For example in my case, i watch women mostly because i want to see if they are wearing something interesting that i could buy for my girlfriend. Let's say that 10-20% of the time i also watch because they look good - but i would never cheat on my gal. There is a saying among my people that translates like this: "What is beautiful even God likes" and with this i rest my case. Take care !
@msedge (4011)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I believe that men stare at young women because they admire them.Or there is something on them that they just love to look and see or watch.As a woman we can't avoid also to stare men but it doesn't mean that we want them,its just that there something on them that made us stare at them.Like, we found their shirt nice and attractive so we can't avoid staring at them or we like their body, etc, etc.
@nini89 (670)
• India
9 Sep 08
It is correct that men always stare at women if they passes by in a bike or walk beside. They admire the women by staring but it is not correct that only men stare there are women who stare at men. i have seen women ( college students) they pass comments on boys if they are in group. Staring women is not so bad but some men pass bad comments that is horrible. It should not do. Some people dont have any bad impression about the women but they see how they walk and their style of dress etc. This is life which moves a head by admiring each other. Have a nice day.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
8 Sep 08
Hi sweethomecatring, I think that men stare at women because they like to look at their beauty. It is their nature to look at women. It is when they do stare and make rude comments that I find them to be obnoxious and inconsiderate. But, I do not always blame them entirely. Sometimes women do dress too provacatively and then wonder why they get that sort of attention. Maybe they should take a good look in the mirror first before they get upset about attracting the wrong type of attention. It is true thought that some men are just plain pigs!
• China
9 Sep 08
People always like to stare at beautiful thing!Also beautiful person!It's a nature stuff.