Should You Dump Your Girlfriend If She Doe'nt Get Along With Your Family
September 7, 2008 6:13pm CST
Is it to much to ask that we all get along what do you do when the people you love dont love each other you cant make people grt along can you how do you handle it any sugestions becuase something has to give am i right or just let be let them dislike each other what can i do?
8 Sep 08
Hi Jonny... Hmmm.. That is a difficult question and I guess the best person to answer that would be you. However, I guess I can give a little insight on your predicament. If you really love your girlfriend, then I don't really see why you should dump her. In the first place, if you guys are really serious of if you're thinking of settling down, the two of you wouldn't be marrying the family but each other and in the long run, it'll still boil down to the two of you. Another question that is on my mind is why does your family dislike your girlfriend? You have to look at their reasons. If it's because of her attitude or the way she acts towards them, then maybe you should give the relationship deeper thought. If it's because they just don't like her because of maybe how she looks or because her family isn't well-off, then that's not really a reason is it? So, it really depends on the reason as to why your family dislikes her in the first place. Afterwards, you can decide on your own. Goodluck my friend. Hope this helps a little.
8 Sep 08
well the funny thing while your family wants the best for you they dont all ways know whats best for you or who's best for you i guess in some ways im the same way we all at point have looked at someones relationship and said they can do better
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8 Sep 08
true Jonny... But here's one outlook that my fiance and I share when it comes to love and relationships: there will always be someone better out there but it all boils down to you seeing, thinking and most importantly seeing that your partner is still the best .
8 Sep 08
Well I think it's a case to case basis. If I do love her I wont drop her,but I will talk to her regarding this matter and prove that they are very wrong about her. Now if I don't love her that much maybe I'll just leave her, I know that in the long run she can get someone and better for her that is deserving for her. Love is wanting the best right for the person. What will make you both grow and happy. Have a nice day!God bless!
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7 Sep 08
We are usually blinded by our desires and don't see people for who they are. Our family has both eyes open, and they see people in focus. Usually. I wouldn't have made half of the mistakes I made if I had listened to my mom. She didn't dislike my friends or boyfriends because she was mean, it was because she could see what I couldn't. Even my 'girl'friends. She knew who I should be friends with and who I shouldn't. Looking back, she was sooo right, most of the time. Hindsight is 20/20.