how do u cope with the relatonship of your love and your family?

China
September 8, 2008 12:27am CST
if u're getting in love and love so deeply each other,but your parents disapproved you.how do you choose? break up?elope?or stand by your family ?du you ever been meet this trouble?
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@klaudine (3652)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 08
I have encountered the same problems. My family didn't like my GF, even in one moment, my parents disallowed my GF to go to my house. I didn't like the situation but since I had the faith in my GF, I tried to prove to my family that my GF is a good person. Started from the small things, like ask my sisters go with my GF and I in some occasion. Since my sisters had felt comfortable with her, I know that it just the time for my mom can accept her. And last week, my mom came to the city. I met her and I brought my GF with me. And they had some talk together. I mean, they really had sometimes together and talked about things. Small things but they talked. I mean, after all these years I waited in vain, my mom can accept her!! So I think it is you who should work really hard if you want to get your partner and your family get along together.
• China
9 Sep 08
come on guys!just go ahead!
@gabbana (1815)
• China
8 Sep 08
haha, finally i bet you get 0.21 $ or so. what makes you raise such a question? i wonder. me? stand by my family. they are wiser and more epxerienced than me.