What is more important, to love or to be loved?
By bugbaby
@bugbaby (1787)
Indonesia
September 8, 2008 3:36am CST
Personally I believe both are equally important. To have reciprocating love is... amazing. But if you love someone, or someone loves you without it being returned, it really, really hurts. I think that the most important thing is that you can love and acknowledge love.
5 responses
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
actually that two situations we must have, to love and to be love in return coz in order to have a successful relationship there should be a give and take relationship, but if we need to choose only one i would rather choose the situation that i am the one who's giving a love, lover is powerful, if people are inlove we are satisfying the feeling by doing good things to our love ones, though i may admit it that i dont want to stay in that king of relationship coz this situation will just make me not to respect and love myself.
I dont want also in the situation that i was the one who loved and the person who loved me is i dont have any feelings, i will feel irritated if he keep on bagging me, i really this kind of situation.
when the first time i meet my wife and i see her face so cute, and need 3 days to heard my wife say love me too, i am so happy at that time, just a week i ask her to be my wife 
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
8 Sep 08
Well ... honestly i like to be loved, but i remember this thing comes in my mind ... It's better to be giving than to be given, so it's better to give love than to be loved ... this word is one thing to be considered ... 
@agent_alice (448)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
To love is important. Loving someone is a very special feeling which nobody can take away from you. But when you love that someone and will love you in return, its an additional feeling which nobody can break it.
To love and to be loved is a wonderful feeling. Sometimes you can never expect what you have been doing because of this love you felt. Sometimes you end up regretting why you did it for love.
@rainmark (4302)
•
8 Sep 08
For me i need to love and to be loved, that's perfect love. But sometimes as what you mentioned,that it hurts to love and never been loved in return, because they loved someone,life would be nice if the two comes along, if not its better to be loved than to love.happy myloting.
