have you ever felt that your a loser in your class?

Philippines
September 9, 2008 12:32am CST
i have this experience in my math class..we had our first exam in this class and i got high score and then we took the second exam and everyone is expected to have a high score because 7 in our class got it perfect but then when i receive my paper, i felt that i am such a loser because i passed it but it was not beyond my expectation and my class standing is lower than i expected.. i guess i really deserve because i didn't take it seriously but then i have this hard feelings because of not doing my best..all i can say now, is that, im such a loser..
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15 responses
@leafgxu (473)
• China
9 Sep 08
When I was in school, I have the experience of feel that I am a loser in my class. This feeling often comes after a mid-term exam or final exam. The teacher like to rank our score and them told everyone which rank he or she is. When I had heard that I rank in the last area of our class, I think I am a loser in our class.
• Canada
9 Sep 08
This is my first year in High school and i want to do good on my first exam, so please guys , dont freak me out! I am starting to get scared about exams. :%
• United States
10 Sep 08
princevisram.. lemme tell u this: just because there are some high school students who are freakin out from their classes, doesn't mean that it shud scare u... don't let them scare you... i dunno what country u live in, but i live in america, and high school... was NOTHING!! haha, not to be a show off, but honestly i really didn't do too hot in high school, but i still graduated!! honestly, as long as you have a faith in yourself, believing that you will do fine, as long as you give your best shot, you'll do fine... don't let the high school classes scare you
• United States
10 Sep 08
dude don't call yourself a loser... and don't worry about your teacher ranking your scores and telling every1 in your class which rank each person is... those things don't really matter!! Heck, then in that case, i guess i am a loser, because i failed a few tests in my calculus class when i was a high school senior?? Come on now!! And if there are some kids making fun of u just because u rank in the last area of ur class, just ignore them!! it's ok to be ranked in the last once in your life... because everyone will FAIL at least once in their life... don't take it too seriously and always have faith in yourself.. you'll do fine!!
@super_jj (1417)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Nah. I always get a good score. Even if i dont study. Hehehehehe. I guess it helps if you dont really expect too much. I still pass my classes tho'.
• Canada
9 Sep 08
Dont be such a showoff. you are not helping the situation at all.
@super_jj (1417)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
OH! Is telling the truth being a showoff? Gosh. Sorry,man,but i'm just stating a fact. I would graduate college in 4 years and land a job if i failed my classes.
@ashar123 (2359)
• India
9 Sep 08
I am extremely thankful to God that I never experience that I am a looser in my class as I was above average and secured in first three positions in my class. But I was not that brilliant and intelligent student who are extra ordinary. I took good grades and was third or second in my class.
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
i hope i can be like you..
@gerald_lian (2193)
• Australia
9 Sep 08
I guess everyone will have their share of times when they didn't fare in an exam up to their expectations. I myself have had such experience too, but no matter how much we are disappointed with it and brood about it, the results remain the same and there's no way the results can be altered. What my friends always encourage me with is this phrase: "Never look back at what has passed and cannot be changed. But rather, look ahead to the future where we can make a difference." How very true the phrase is, and I always take this phrase as my inspiration whenever I get exam results not up to my expectations....I hope it does for you too....
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
wow! thanks for the phrase..its inspiring..!! i will remember it from now on..
@lilaclady (28238)
• Australia
9 Sep 08
When i was at school I always felt like a loser, I never did well in exams I just didn't have the memory and just didn't know how to take in all the information, my want for learning didn't come to me until I was in my twenties and this why I always say that with some people the yearning for learning comes later and it doesn't matter what you do you can't take it in until you are ready....
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
maybe you are a late bloomer..
@divinchris (2449)
• India
10 Sep 08
I have experienced that in my college life.Everyone got good marks in their project work,but I was punished by my teacher and I clocked only 80% there.Where as my other friends managed to get above 95%.That time I really felt bad,thanks for having this discussion.Happy mylotting
@switlyf (650)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
maybe you're expecting much from yourself since the last exam you got a high score.its ok to expect much from it but just be sure not to be so depress when you didn't get what you wanted. THERE's always next time! happy mylotting, cheers!
@animeniak (425)
• United States
10 Sep 08
come on now... don't call yourself a loser just because you didn't do so well on your math exam!! don't be too negative on yourself... Heck, if that's the case, then I guess I am like one of the biggest loser, because I failed like... 70 percent of the tests in my AP BC Calculus class when I was a high school senior?? It's ok if you didn't do so hot on your math exam, I mean everyone fails a few times in their life, right? Don't get too discouraged too easily just because you did horribly on your math exam :) besides.. doing horribly on your exams can sometimes bring you a good thing... u can learn from the mistakes :)
@Sheepie (3118)
• United States
10 Sep 08
That really is what school is all about! Do not worry about the other people there, as they will come and go soon enough. Worry about achieving your dreams and acquiring a great future! Just do your best every single day. First will come responsibility, then you will have results, then, pride! Be the best you that you can be! Good luck!
@Sean_Jean (269)
• Canada
10 Sep 08
Nope not really, i usually ace those tests. But i know some people who feel like that.
• United States
10 Sep 08
no i haven't felt that i a loose in my class because when i was a kid ... i was the most intelligent boy in my whole class .. and i was passed in every exam
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
Sweets is the key.. ^_^ its good for the brain cells.. Loosing is a part of Life.. dont make it your burden.. just stand up when you fall down.. it'l give you some lessons, an advantage that they don't understand beacause they don't knew the feelings coz they didn't experience it yet.. i prefer to be a looser. ^_^ im such a LOOSER.. hahaha.. in that way they Cant see what can do truly.. and by showing up your self sometimes is enough than having a lot expectation.. it'l bring depressions on you.. (pressured).. nah .. =D i Like MaTh.. But i Dont want to be The Highest Anyway.. God Knows Who's Better.. ^_^ its Just a Charm.. i Dont want to Shine anyway.. hahahaah
• United States
9 Sep 08
Yes, I have always felt like a loser in a lot of my classes. I feel like I am the one that has to work a thousand times harder than anyone else because I am not as smart as everyone else. I know that I am smart, but I never feel that I am. I always feel like I am really stupid.
• Canada
9 Sep 08
You shouldnt feel that way at all because you tried your best right? Thats all that cosunts. As long asas you put in your full effort into it, you trierd your best, than there is noo problems whatsoever and you are not a lozer. a loser is someone that donsent put their effort into what they do.
• Singapore
9 Sep 08
you are way better than me. i am really a loser in class. it is just that no matter what i do, i am always the loser in some of my classmates' eyes. what had i done to deserve all this? even if i got a high score in a particular subject, those people will always say how they win me in other subject. i had grown used to it, i don't really care about them. can't i score well? did i even laugh at them when they failed their test? the answer is, no i did not.