is it hard to say sorry?

Philippines
September 9, 2008 6:51am CST
i just wonder why some people do have a hard time saying sorry even if they are at fault? is it really hard to acknowledge ones mistakes and be sorry for the people that we have hurt? i don't find saying sorry hard at all if i am at fault because i know that my guilt will always bother me that i have hurt someone. saying sorry takes humility and acknowledging that we are not perfect and would make mistakes from time to time. what is important is we humble ourselves just like what Jesus did to all of us.
9 responses
@riyasam (16578)
• India
9 Sep 08
i do not think it is hard to just say sorry and not mean it.it would be very difficult to say sorry and mean it.
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• Philippines
9 Sep 08
you got a point in there. :) thanks for the post and have a great day ahead. happy mylotting!
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
saying sorry takes humility.. that is why,.. people nowadays are having all the pride of life.. that is why it is hard to say.. me, i am a subject to it.. it is hard for me to swallow my pride.. but then, through God's grace, i find it easier to say so.. especially when it is really my mistake, i would certainly be at your doorstep to say sorry...
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@balasri (26554)
• India
22 Dec 08
Saying sorry if I am wrong makes me fell free and have a light heart always.
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
that is true for it takes away the guilt that we feel inside and we carry with us. thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@balasri (26554)
• India
22 Dec 08
Thanks and great day to you too.
@rajeshank (253)
• India
18 Dec 08
Yup...its very difficult to ask sorry even to very own friends...i have been in this situation many odd times...even i made mistake for them i feel hard to ask sorry to them...i will think first he want to ask then me..its human nature...but some times i realize my fault and ask sorry to them with unwillingly..:)
• Philippines
19 Dec 08
that is true, saying sorry at times takes courage and sincerity. happy mylotting and have a great day!!!
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
I do having hard time saying sorry to a person especially if I'm still mad. I wanted to be honest to them even when I'm mad. I will say sorry if I have cooled down and ready to talk to the person. To patch things up to that person and prevent furthur damage to our friendship or relationship. I hate having arguements but sometimes we cant prevent it. That way, we can realize how we treaure a person after having a fight with them. And the bond makes it stronger. But if it's my fault, wait until I'm ready to talk calmy and I will say my sorry.
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
That's very true, we should avoid talking if we are mad for we might just regret whatever we have said during the time of rage and fire. thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@adihindu (1922)
• India
18 Nov 08
If fault is in my side I don't bother to say sorry. If I make fault with others I feel very much if I am not able to say sorry. It is very sad to me if some one hurts because of me. I think every one should did mistakes sorry is not a hard thing for me to say others who were hurt by me. Some times I feel guilty so say sorry to my friends and relatives who were very close to me. Happy mylotting.
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
• India
9 Sep 08
In the civil society if some has been hurt by the others action or mistake if he beg sorry that is o.k. When some one intentionally do some thing wrong to hurt the following of the fellow persons and then say sorry, it is not enough for the aggrieved person. Some thing more is required to be done.
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@moneymaya (901)
• India
15 Dec 08
its depends on situation when its some times there is no issue to say sorry like suppose you feel that its your fault and there are some unknown person and if you know that its your fault but effected person is your well known person and who have lossed you before this incident then I think its become bproblamatic for you to say sorry means here is the proble of ego and also if the effected person is powerfull than you then you can easily say LOL s thanks friend and happy mylotting :-)
@anneshirley (1517)
• Philippines
9 Sep 08
It easy for me to say sorry for my easy or shallow mistakes like accidentally bumping someone, being loud when everybody else is quiet or anything like that. If I know that it is my fault and I am in the wrong I would apologize quickly but I will never say "sorry" to something which I am not really sorry for especially if that means I have to go against my principle. I am usually being caught in a heated argument because of this but I have to stand on what I feel and what I believe. I will not say sorry just because someone ask me to. I will say sorry when I mean it and it will always come from the heart.