The Ex
By danyckaangel
@danyckaangel (1)
September 9, 2008 6:07pm CST
So what is a girl to do when she finds out that her man has lied, manipulated and used her and their daugther to make his Ex jealous to the extream of even moving in with the mother and his child to create the family he has always wanted. Then when he thinks that she has had enough he leaves the mother of his child and his child to go back to his Ex who is now pregnant with another man's child, to raise that child instead of the one he has......What is a girl to do when these two very unstable people continuously bash her character, and threaten her, to hear the man she has loved for years take her and spit her out......What is a girl to do when she hears her little one tell her mom that dad is a bad man and that he doesn't love her.....what's a girl to do?
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5 responses
@indiandevil (2410)
• Canada
13 Sep 08
Move on, and don't look back. It isn't worth the heartache to hold on to something like that. In time you will get better because you deserve better. It may hurt now but believe it or not wounds heal in time. Just keep your head up and stay on track and you will do fine.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
13 Jan 09
I think the saying is "wash that man right out of your hair." Enough said. If he loves his ex; he loves his ex. Move on!
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
Is this a true happening? From where is she? Perhaps, I could talk to her personally. hehehhe.. Ok, I want to know if they are legally married? If not, then she has to move forward. She don't deserve a man like that. Loving would lead you to experience pain, but when the pain is hurting much and could degrade your dignity, get out of the relationship and move on. Let her find a guy who found her worth, someone who loves her more than how much she loves him, someone who would be proud of her despite of her flaws.
Tell her to love not by heart alone. Use her brain because in her situation now, her heart can't help her. It is not too late. The child grows fast and can think soon. It is not good that he is seeing the actual happenings. It would make him rebellious and hateful towards his father. It should not be that way. The father may be bad, but he would remain as the father of the child.
@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
11 Jan 09
Don't go back to the ex ! Sure your daughter may want her daddy, but you must think about what is best for her, and having a man like that around her is not the best idea in the wrold
@equilady (43)
• United States
10 Sep 08
Pick yourself up, brush yourself off and start all over again! No man, or woman, is worth being treated like that. Chances are he is not going to change. Why would you want to continue to submit yourself to such treatment. Why would you want your child to grow up thinking this is ok? It is not mandatory to be devoted to the father/mother of one's child! Have enough love and respect for yourself and your child to find yourself a better situation. You will obviously have to deal with your ex for the child to be able to have a relationship with their father. Do it in an adult manner that you can be proud of in the years to come. Good Luck!
PS Most importantly remember that this is NOT your fault! You can not make someone something that they are not, good or bad!
