If This Is YOU In My Story, Can You Forgive Them???

Philippines
September 10, 2008 6:34am CST
I am doubting on writing this story because, i know this is immoral and not right... I feel ashamed to share this, but i wanted too... I was inlove with a married man. He came from other city and we both work in the same company. I know, who and what he is, but i never expect i would feel inlove with him... Now, he need to resign from his job and of course return to the place where he belong and this is his home, his family... when he came home, his wife find out my picture to his wallet... God knows i dont have plan to broke his family... I was so afraid when i received his wife messages from my cellphone... Until i call his wife and i tell her everything and i asked her forgiveness and another chance for his husband... I said that i feel sorry for everything but i dont have any mean to broke his family... I was so surprised when she said "OKAY and YES i forgive both of you and my husband... I am so happy and now i have a peace of mind... and can you believe that me and her wife is now a friend in text... LOL!!! Atleast... Any comment please??? Bad or good...
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5 responses
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
10 Sep 08
I think no one is perfect. We commit mistakes,and learned from this. You love him to understand pain. You don't even think of yourself but what is the best thing to do. The most important thing is you did fix his life,and you know where you stand.What is important you did accept your mistakes,and have a peace of mind that you end it up. You were never been selfish or cruel. Someday somehow someone will make your life complete and you can call yours and for sure that will come along. God be with you! Good night!
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• Philippines
11 Sep 08
thanks...
@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
24 Nov 08
H[i]i Gwapako, wow....what a very understanding wife! ANyway, I will not judge you but appreciate you for being honest to her and maybe that's the reason why she trusted you and accepted you as her friend![/i]
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@rsa101 (13337)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
Oh I guess you got a lucky break that the wife did not take it seriously anymore and you tow even got closer. I would just like to remind you that you've already learned that lesson and not everyone is given the opportunity to be forgiven just like that. So consider yourself lucky in this situation but never expect doing the same thing in your life because you already know the consequences of doing that. It may be messy the second time around.
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
10 Sep 08
oh good for you things turned out well.in future do not ever make the same mistake.happy posting.
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@rainmark (4308)
10 Sep 08
Oh cool wife,very understanding, and friendly. Maybe i also forgive someone as long as they accept that they did a mistake and ask an apology to me. It's not hard to forgive someone as long as they are sincere and never do it again. It says it nice to be get friend to your enemy coz you know thier every move.And her strategy is very good, because you were friends now, you will feel guilty to do it again to her. happy myloting!
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