How ll u convince ur parents for ur love marriage ?????

India
September 11, 2008 3:16am CST
Its hard and funny thing we come upon..rite.. Our parents have some personal opinion about us.... We all knw tat...may be innocent,childish etc... In tat situation how u ll convince ur mom n dad tat u have fallen in love and appeal for ur marriage???? With all our discussions it will be useful for me wen i fall in love and speaks with my mom...lols!!!!
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@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
12 Sep 08
i guess just tell them you finally met someone you really like and want to spend the rest of your life with this person. u both feel happy when you are together and this is the one you want to marry and have kids with. just tell them straight up, how else would you tell them.
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@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
12 Sep 08
prove to her that u r mature. get a job, and take care of ur future spouse and your house together. show her that you can handle being married and everything that goes with it. take her out to dinner with your future spouse and discuss the whole matter over a nice dinner in a nice restaurant.
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• India
12 Sep 08
wow..great idea...thanks fifi... I ll use that...Thanks for ur valuable comments...
• India
12 Sep 08
u r rite fi...I don hav any other choice as ur comment...But the thing is my mom thinks i am childish and i dono any thing....It will be shy know..while standing front of her and saying my love...
• Singapore
15 Sep 08
I don't care about them...
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• India
22 Sep 08
of course some may be... Some times they ll be like barrier...isn't it....
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
11 Sep 08
Hi there Backseatboy! Based on my own experienced, my husband and I eloped and ask their permission for us to get married later on when I was already pregnant. It's not what's supposed to happen so I would just say that you should just talk to your parents and tell them exactly how you feel because nothing else can be a good start to prove that you're serious about it than to be man enough to really talk to them about it.
• India
12 Sep 08
Thank u angel....I take ur comments...
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
11 Sep 08
well sometimes its not sometimes it is , it all depends on the parental Mindedness! If they have a tradition of being selective about the girl or the guy for their guy or a girl.
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• India
12 Sep 08
so if they are selective,how u ll convince them for ur love??
• China
11 Sep 08
When I told my parents I have a boyfriend,they just opposed a lot. They kept talking to me that there were some disadvantage for me to marry a guy far from my city.I totaly know that.But I love him.So I just treat their words be unheeded advice Several months later,they admitted our relationship.They know I love him very much,so^^^^^^ No parents can win their children. Happy mylotting!!
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• India
12 Sep 08
But still some parents are stubborn in their thoughts... Thanks for ur comments kingkiski...