You have no right. I want to protect my kids!!

@hunandi (288)
United States
September 11, 2008 12:48pm CST
Here is my problem. I have a beautful baby girl just over a year old.When I found out my husband was cheating on me a while ago also heard he was supposely telling people our youngest is not his. I only trust one person that says he said this. Of which he swears on his life those words would never come out of his mouth. I went as for as offering him a dna test. Which he denied we both know there is no reason for one anyhow. Well just this past month his friend dave came to stay at our house for a couple nights. Keep in mind this is the same friend that always get him into trouble. I mean this guy hates my guts because I wont leave him. He thinks my old man should be able to act single , never have to come home and blow money we dont have. That being said When this jerk was in my house my sister and her family also came out for a few days. This guy had enough guts to tell my brother in law that once again my daughter does not belong to my husband. They have gone to great lenghs to make this point . On her first bithday this same friend and another not so wonderful man threatened to have my kids kid napped. I am at my whits end. I can no long try to be a nice persons to any of these people weather or not my husband was once close with them. I feel my children are now in danger because of his friends. What do I do. I do know he did at least once tell them to stop and they wont. Now all i hear is i bearly talk to them. I cant take this please give me your point of view.
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@lilybug (21148)
• United States
11 Sep 08
I personally would have been out the door as soon as I found out he was cheating on me especially if he was also denying my child. Also, if he knows that his friend is threatening to have your kids kidnapped and he has not knocked the jerk out then he has issues.
@hunandi (288)
• United States
12 Sep 08
He never denied her to me,my friends,or family. This is all from his two friends that diapprove of me. I agree think he should beat the crap out of the them. How can anyone wish such evil for personal gain. And all they want to gain is my old man. Becasue they know he has a job which equals money which of course we spend on bills and a car. So they bascily want to use the crap out of him. Which Im not ok. If we wouldnt have just bouought a new house a couple monthes ago Id be gone.
• United States
22 Sep 08
I believe if he loves you that he should be able to prove it to you. To show you that he can keep his family out of danger. Also to quit hanging out with the people that are saying this stuff about your child. I would also have reported that he made threats of kidnapping your children.
• Australia
11 Sep 08
I am hesitant to influence you, because obviously this is a highly charged situation. But if it was me? I would run, and never look back. Life is short, and you - just like every other mortal on the face of this earth - do not have the time to waste.