happiness

United States
September 11, 2008 4:50pm CST
i've seemed to have somewhere down the road of life skipped this subject. Through the course of my 37 years of life I have lacked in this catergory. I can say my childre now 21 girl, 18 son and 3 girl are the most happiness I've had. I have seemed to make others happy while neglecting my own needs. I have no friends, so have decided this may be a good place to start. I don't have very much intellegent and meaningful conversation these days or for that matter a few years.
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@jassi1 (171)
• India
17 Sep 08
i must say happiness is feeling which comes from your soul in past 6-7 years i was very disturbed in my personal life i alos have a bay after losing my husband i had to go for work where i learn to make friend and also learn how to make yourself happy after doing so much of efforts i have removed all the dullness from my life i go out enjoy my life and enjoyed very much and now i have got lot of friends and i can share my feelings also
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@katkat (2379)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
Cheer up!! You can make friends and discuss things that you want here on mylot and don’t say your not intelligent. I’m sure you will have lots of meaningful conversations and will learn more things on our fellow myloters.
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@pau_79 (793)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
hey dont be so gloomy, were here to discuss things and feel free to add friends in your list. also try to go out, go to church, have fun, visit relatives once in a while theres so many reasons to be happy one hing i can assure you is YOU WILL have meaningful conversations here :)
@teka44 (3425)
• Brazil
11 Sep 08
Hi ellaree, welcome to mylot dear fellow and have a happy stay here with us. I disagree with you that you don't have much intelligence. If it is true you could not care for your children and make them nice persons like you do. And you do, so you are intelligent. You need more self confidence. I'm sure that who can be a good mother and building a nice family must be a nice person with much intelligence because it isn't an easy thing. You need to be many things at the same time: nurse, cook, teacher, manager and much more. You did it so you are a genius AHAHAH! Here you can talk about anything you want and make many friends too so I'm sure that you will have good times full of fun in mylot. Cheers dear and welcome.
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• United States
11 Sep 08
aw cheer up friends aren't everything although I think it will be a good idea to start making some. I think taking care of your kids above yourself is more than I can say for my own mom. I think that you did a great thing and you should be proud of yourself. A great way to start meeting people would be to volunteer in your community. There are tons of great people who nice a caring. I think you will want to start your friendships off with some gentler people. When you volunteer at places like shelters and places that make food boxes... it cheers you up knowing your helping someone live another week and possibly until they don't need it anymore. Like I said your commendable for your deeds and I wish you luck on new friendships and lots of love your way! Happy mylotting!
@scorpio19 (1363)
17 Sep 08
awww bless I feel so sorry for you..I know where your coming from.. you have devoted your time and energy to you kids and now you wonder why, when they have all grown up and you feel you haven't done much when in actually fact you have achieved so much..welcome to my lot and I know you will make some very good online friends here.