if your best friend was being cheated on, would you tell?

that's real hard question, i think i willn't tell her directly. at first i will talk to her boyfriend, and the make a decision how to do then? actually i don't hope that thing happen!

I think I would have to tell them. It would be really hard to have to break something like that to a close friend, but I would just feel so awful if I knew that they were being cheated on and didn't say anything. I don't think I could stand just not doing anything, and then knowing what was going on behind their back the whole time. I'd want to let them know the truth, and then they could decide what to do from there. I think it would be better for them to hear it from me, when I can try to break it to them gently and be there to help support them when they find out. Also, I think that if they eventually found out that their boyfriend was cheating, and then discovered that I had known about it and kept it a secret, then they would probably feeled like they were betrayed by both of us.

yes I most certainly would. If not I would not be a real friend in my mind.

Yeah, I would, and we could make up the best way to humiliate the jerk. We could really do some damage to his self esteem, maybe do anything to get back at him. If he cheats he is not worth a second of life of anyone who is a friend of mine. Guys like that need to be punished thoroughly.