Have you ever caught your partner in bed with another person?

@cream97 (29166)
United States
September 12, 2008 9:11am CST
I have never experienced this. And don't think that I can.. What did you do when you saw this.. If you never had this happened to you, then what would you do, honestly, in a situation as this?
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@rocker21 (2717)
• India
12 Sep 08
No and i hope i never experience this ever in life, i know it'll be really heartbreaking!!
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Yes, this is a bad experience to go through!
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@rocker21 (2717)
• India
12 Sep 08
did tat happen to you?? ever!
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
12 Sep 08
No, never in my life! But, I just know that if I really and truly loved someone and they did this to me.. I would be hurt like Hell!!! I have never personally went through it, but, I know how I would feel if I was to experience this drama..
@tessah (6621)
• United States
13 Sep 08
wasnt my bed.. but does my kitchen floor count? ex boyfriend, ex best friend.. they apparently forgot i was in my own frigen apartment.. i walked into my kitchen and found them tangled up on my floor. i didnt react in the usual manner as most i dont think. i stepped over them, hissed the comment "well ain this f*ckin cozy" and continued on my way. they were both drunk.. they seemed to think this excused the actions. it didnt, and they both hit the curb.
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• Philippines
12 Sep 08
If I'll ever caught him with another girl, it's either I cut off his manhood or probably take both their lives. No kidding, the adrenaline will kick thru and you might not know what you will be doing. I am the type of person that doesn't know what I am doing and what I am saying when I am mad. Luckily my boyfriend is a one woman man although I know he is a womanizer but I know he is faithful.
@cream97 (29166)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Wow! He needs to watch out!!
@riyasam (16571)
• India
12 Sep 08
guess thats what even i will do.
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@riyasam (16571)
• India
12 Sep 08
.what a scary thought. hope i never experience it.maybe i will be able to take it if it is done outside but not in my own home.
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Me neither, for it to be in my home is very deadly!!@@@@^^
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
12 Sep 08
no! and i am sure not!!!and if it will happen, i will let them finish then talk to my partner direct to the point
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
12 Sep 08
I will talk and be leaving at the same time too!
@dragon54u (31651)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Haven't caught him but knew he did it and saw checks made out to women. We're divorced now. I forgave him many times but he finally filed for divorce to marry his high school girlfriend.
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
12 Sep 08
How trifling of his behind!! I know that you are exceptionally glad to be without him.. I know that I would.
@laydee (12811)
• Philippines
12 Sep 08
I have never and I hope I never will. But at times though, whenever I'm so immersed with daydreaming, I often try to think of that situation in my mind. I think I could compose myself and not be hysterical about it, just leave and not say a word~ but after I let him see me look at him though (just for effects). It's like a movie. But of course, no amount of imagination could ever really predict how you would react to such situations. So, I'm really keeping my fingers crossed that that event could never pass through my life or anyone's life. To those who did encounter such, I hoped you got over it and saw it as an opportunity to have a better life away from the b@st@rd to dared to do so.
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@cream97 (29166)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Yes, getting over someone whom could do such a crude act is the best way to move on..
@syankee525 (6294)
• United States
14 Sep 08
i never did, but i guess it's depend the mood i am in, so it's either beat the crap out of him, or just shake his hands, call her a hoe.. and grab things and leave.
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@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
12 Sep 08
Hi[i] cream, I wish I will never experience this situation..That must be tough, I do know what to do really, maybe I will both hit them and I will be shouting with madness! LOL! [/i]
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@Anchopy (1453)
• Paraguay
15 Sep 08
Until now, never.. but she caught me on Saturday.. and don't know how but she decided to stay with me even knowing that I was with another girl.. and the other girl neither left! It was really interesting..
@Uroborus (910)
• Canada
12 Sep 08
I've never thought about this, and I'm not sure I would react well if I did, but you know, when I fantasize about it, it can be exciting. Coming in on them and being aroused by what they're doing. Then they wave me over saying to join them, and it ends up being a threesome. As a fantasy, I must say it excites me.