Why do some husband hates his wife?

Malaysia
September 12, 2008 11:31pm CST
Do any wives know that sometimes their husband get upset and hates them! What would you say?
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5 responses
@chabawel (330)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
If a husband hates his wife, then he needs to get a divorce or file an annulment. Hate is a strong word. Marriage is not about hate, it's about meeting in between despite the differences of the husband and the wife. In any given relationship, there's always misunderstandings. Unfortunately, some husbands don't know how to deal problems with his wife. Then the husband gets irritated because the wife is trying to get the husband's attention. It depends on the situation. The bottomline is, IF YOU HATE A PERSON, YOU ARE NOT MEANT TO BE IN THAT RELATIONSHIP. HAPPY MYLOTTERS.
• Malaysia
16 Sep 08
Personally, i agree with you. Just wondering, why women keep saying that they hate their husband but in the same time still caring them too much. But, when their husband say they hate their wife, most women will think it's like the end of the world. What if, it's just some way for their husband to attract their wife attention?
@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
15 Sep 08
I agree with everyone who has said that they do not believe it is hate. Hate is such a strong word. People often will dislike one another, but most the time it is for a very short time. Fights occur it does not matter of what relation you are, as husband and wife they are more personal in nature but nonetheless it is not really hatred spewing from their mouths. More like it is just a disagreement, and maybe feelings that have not yet been shared. I think that less fights would occur if more people would talk things out, even though it can be quite difficult. Depression can strike and then people do not wish to talk at all, and will lash out if bothered to terribly much.
• Malaysia
16 Sep 08
I do face this kind of problem sometimes. I'm wordless and speechless when arguing with my spouse. All i could do is be quiet and keep myself silent, hoping that the argument will gone sooner.
@ehlsie (730)
• Philippines
13 Sep 08
I think they don't hate but most hjusbands got irritated to their wives...It is because of they have a nagger wife...that's all guys don't want...nagging them specially in front of their kids or in public... happy mylotters!
• Malaysia
13 Sep 08
I also think that most husband got irritated when they don't get whatever they ask from their wife. Specially in their "matured life", that's only my opinion! I don't know, how about anyone else.
@dasineni (39)
• India
13 Sep 08
hate is not there in between wife and husband,that's only love.small disturbance is only due to love.if hate is there then they may not be with each other in life.
• Malaysia
13 Sep 08
In my custom, we have a word likes "hateful but in deep loves". Despite these wife-husband keep quarrelsome and yet they live together for many years.
@rainmark (4306)
16 Sep 08
Some reason why men hates thier wife sometimes because sometimes wife are great nagger, thye keep nagging to thier husband, wife is lazy to clean and do wife tasks inside the house. Sometimes husband hates when thier wife spend alot on shopping and buy something not important and etc. But im sure they still love thier wife in behalf of those negativity.