What will woman choose money or love?

Philippines
September 13, 2008 7:48pm CST
I notice that many woman choose a lover who has money, sometimes one with no money cannot get attention. Is this really true or not?
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15 responses
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
14 Sep 08
We shouldn't blame people who choose money instead of love. That's what they called practicality. Have you ever asked yourself, what's love without money? or What's money without love? They have their own reasons why they choose either of the two. The important is, they're happy.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
14 Sep 08
Yes you are right. Like us filipina whom happened to be married with foreigners people would thought that we're just looking for money and to be in foreign land. Fault of one is fault of all. They are generalizing already. People get brainwashed and that's why each other's side would think negatively. Admit or not, money is important. But not as important of love, respect and happiness within the couple's relationship.
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
I think there is a balance between love and money because if they would become husband and wife - they will discussing money and their future.
• India
14 Sep 08
ya i agree with u mostly women not stay with poor man. mostly all women search a rich man but my frnd some time some women dont want money they want true love. when a women love very much with a man then money is not matter for her because when women loves any then she loves and only loves him not his status and money its i rule of indian girls. indian women mostly prefer a man who loves her very much she also want money but not more then love..
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Your right woman find true love.
@kheyanne (287)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Money will always be tempting. But when a woman finds the love of her life, she won't be able to resist love. Money can take second place.
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Yeah your right money is second only for love, but if love is gone money is priority.
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
i dont think so. maybe, they just see if the man is stable already. just incase the relationship works and decided to married they'll be sure of their future. that might be the reason behind.
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
But if a man has nothing and he do everything to have a stable job but sometimes he just a loser, sure no woman would attract to him.
@Margarit (3676)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
I would say love, for i am hopelessly romantic person, it is a plus factor if he also have money but money can be earn anyway so with or without it as long has i love him and he love me too is fine with me.
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Both parties must cooperate also and trust is number one factor to ensure the relationship will last long.
• Brazil
14 Sep 08
In today's world, unfortunately the interest of the majority of women that the issue of having money, hardly a man without money will be to the woman of his dreams without having to satiates his money. This is the today's world.
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
I think that woman today are thinking for security, because she does not want to be poor someday.
@emarie (5442)
• United States
14 Sep 08
i would say a good 97% of women out there would rather marry for love then money. the other 3% says its love but its probably for money, the classic 'gold diggers' i guess you would call it. every girl has a fantasy of her prince charming so majority of girls are prone to marry for love.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
14 Sep 08
Hello! Relation develops with money and ends with love.Suppose a man has sufficient money and spends lavishly for getting a good wife.And he succeeded in his mission.Subsequently the lady finds that he has no time to take adequate care of her she would turn up for separation.So in my opinion both money and love play equal role in determining the relationship.thanx.
• United States
14 Sep 08
A lot of women do marry for money and don't have that great of lives except for the porche sitting out in their driveways, fortunetely I'm not most women. I married my husband for his personality. Granted he is very hot, but certainly not made of money, and if i had to do it again, well lets just get the marriage license signed and sent. Money is not everything, i would much rather have someone that I can truly confide in, that i can talk to everyday, that i can look forward to waking up beside of, a man that loves me for who I am, one who shows respect where it is given, and one that I can not worry about having children with because I know that he would be a wonderful dad (as he is). Love is not money and it's not right to think of it as that. And although some women think they love money it's just an ending lust that they will soon realize evaporates quickly.
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
Not all woman is after with the money, those people who say's that thing maybe experience that thing.
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
14 Sep 08
I would never be like that if the guy has great qualities, but he needs to prove himself as having a "rich personality" you know what I mean? I would sleep on the floor in an apartment with no furniture if he was really great.
• India
14 Sep 08
really a nice questions,,actually as per my experience you are right at some level but this thing is not always women choose a lover as per her feeling about him,when woman meet a man she observe everything like his style of communication, how much he is rich, what kind of nature of his ,,ll she is safe with him and many more and then after she talk with him and day day talk she feel some good with that guy then she fall in love with him ,,and the women who need only money then she loved to his money not to that guy,, so i dont think woman choose a lover who is rich..
@nlcapricorn (1114)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
I will going to choose both..please! lol..Well if you are inlove to a person you will accept him even though he has no money. Even though he has nothing anyway you both can work together for you to have a good life. Money is not a problem if both are wise enough to think of ways to have it. Well in my side i will choose love than money. Its useless to have money without love.
• Malaysia
14 Sep 08
Everyone has their own attitude, prinsipe and behaviour. Some woman may be materialistic and some do not. But I believe that nobody wants to have a hard life or being poor. As for me, I am not materalistic, my husband came from a simple and average family. He doesn't have to be rich but must have good job and capable enough to give me and our children easy life and good future. I also work to help him support the family. But, I have some friends who are "material girl" who only accept or mix around with the rich.
• United States
14 Sep 08
It really doesn't matter to me. If you love someone and they aren't as wealthy as you, you learn to deal with it and help it as it goes. Its really sad when girls pick a guy with money over a guy with none because the guy with none might be more loving and friendly. you know?