what irritates you about the other?

@jhl930 (3605)
United States
September 14, 2008 6:15pm CST
i know that most of the times in a relationship there are little things that your "other"does that irritates you or just bothers you in little ways, like for me it would have to be when she overreacts to things that happen and i'm like its not that big of deal...and that is one big thing and when she's so nieve about other guys and what they want that really irritates me, and its just a few things that do get to me and i was just wondering if anyone else had this kind of problem, if you do please feel free to share! thanks for taking the time out of your day to read and review my discussion and maybe answering my discussion, i hope that you all had a great weekend and i hope that your night and the rest of the week this week is a great week for you, thanks again for taking the time!
9 responses
• United States
15 Sep 08
there is a couple things that annoy me but the worst one is he dont know how to clean up after himself. You can take 2 steps put your dishs in the sink or a couple of steps and put your clothes in the dirty clothes basket. I mean seriouly it isnt that hard. I think he does it jsut to annoy me really cause he knows i hate when it dont do it himself and have to tell him over and over again to do it and he jsut stands there and looks at me like im crazy or he'll say can you get it for me im like what do i look like your maid i dont think so my friend. then he finally does it for himself.
@TessWhite (3147)
• United States
15 Sep 08
I can SO relate to what you deal with! My guy is the same way. I even put the clothes hamper next to his side of the bed. So what does he do? He drops his clothes on the floor in FRONT of the hamper. ERRRRR
• Philippines
15 Sep 08
what irritates me about my boyfriend is sometimes he is insensitive. He jokes all the time to me and sometimes it's getting personal in which sometimes, I get hurt. I don't know if i'm just sensitive or he is just insensitive but that irritates me a lot when he doesn't know that the joke is already hurting me or not. Another thing that irritates me about him is that he sometimes don't have time for me. Sometimes I feel that he loves his job more than me. But I know I should just understand him. And sometimes, that's the problem. I should always understand him. Sometimes, I would like to be understand also. :(
• India
15 Sep 08
yes yaar thats very normal . actually precisely speaking thats not irritation its the insecurity. its kind of like when your to be better half shows possesion for others also. but its better to take all this as an enjoyment rather than irritation. do the same what irritates you not as a feeling of revenge but just as of love n joy
@Ithink (10500)
• United States
15 Sep 08
Kinda funny as I just started a discussion on pack-rats compared to people that like to clean out. There are 2 things that irritate me and that is that he collects and keeps EVERYTHING. I have just now after 26 years of being together started to get him to see things may way a little on this subject. The other thing is he is like the quiet guy in the corner. He is happy and content to just say a few words here and there. I personally like a good discussion or debate on subjects, which is why my best friend is like me and one of the reasons I enjoy mylot and mylotters so much. Not to say I dont love him dearly and I cant imagine life, not tripping of over something of his or watching him just listen to me talk and nodding his head once in awhile. LOL!
@TessWhite (3147)
• United States
15 Sep 08
I seriously doubt I can list the many ways my guy irritates me. LOL But I'll give it a try. He can't seem to put his clothes IN the hamper. They lay on the floor in FRONT OF THE HAMPER. He can't seem to shut any door after going thru it, or taking something out of it. He doesn't seem to know how to put the caps back on the shaving gel or toothpaste, so that they oooze goo all over the counter for me to clean up. For him lights are always left on, causing high electric bills if I don't follow him everywhere turning them all off. Getting his attention to listen to me when he is on the computer is pretty much impossible. The house could burn down around him and he would still be sitting there because he never heard me shout FIRE fifteen times beforehand. I'm sure I could think of others, but these are the main things. LOL
• India
15 Sep 08
I have the reason to irritate the others is the person who don't have listening me i get irritation on them. I want to listen first then the other person can do what i am said other wise i get irritation on such persons. If the person I believed person will scam i get irritation and i never talk with the person in my life. I wont excuse him/her. I will be long with that them
• India
15 Sep 08
I hate selfishness in others and back talking this qualities irritates me mostly.People without helping nature cleanliness respect towards nation and senior citizens irritates me most.No sincerity in relationship irritates me more..
@kerriannc (4280)
• Jamaica
15 Sep 08
You are welcome. A lot of things irritates me were my boyfriend is concerned (1) Talking to him and he is watching the television. (2)Planning a goal and he is not interested and now (3) making up my mind to leave him and he is still hanging on. These things makes me want to kill him because whenever I try to let him see that the future does not look so promising with him in my life he thinks that I am joking.
@rekcart83 (149)
• Philippines
14 Sep 08
What irritates me is her nagging and super sensitivity to things. Well I'm able to deal with that now. But before whenever she nags be about somethings like what I should I be or how I should behave in front of her family and relatives we end up arguing and me leave and go home. But I've confronted her about that and whenever she nags I always reminds her about what we talk about that matter.