If your friend were being cheated on would you tell them?

United States
September 16, 2008 7:08am CST
If your saw your friends significant other out with someone else and it was obvious that something was going on would you tell your friend? Lets say I saw my girlfriends husband all canoodled up with some other woman at the movies. I dont want to harm the relationship with my friend but if the situation were reversed I'd definetely want someone to tell me. Tell or not?
6 responses
@sang2k2 (1834)
• India
16 Sep 08
it depends on the situation and kind of friend.i would reveal the details only after convinving myself reagrding the person with whom the guy was along.and i would rather take a snap or rather make a smart move to convey the signal and wont bluntly open my mouth on it..i mite as well reveal my freind by hiding my name...
• China
16 Sep 08
If I were you.I will tell my friend.I just do my part.what she going to do,it's not my business.
• United States
16 Sep 08
I have been in this very position. During a casual conversation I will bring up cheating...then I will ask my friend, well if your spouse were cheating would you want to know? If the friend said yes I would tell her...if she said no I would keep it to myself. Some people honestly do not want to know, or already know and dont want to be forced to face it by someone bringing it up. Also, always be sure your motives for wanting to tell your friend are solely for their benefit. Never repeat what you saw to anyone else or other friends. Some people know, but dont want to take any action until they have thought it through, and having it brought up is very embarassing.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
16 Sep 08
yes, I will tell my friend..cause, I don't like the feeling of being cheated..and its the same way with the people that I care about. I would hate for them to be cheated-on.
@mayka123 (10756)
• India
16 Sep 08
I think I would tell the friend. In fact I think I would speak to both of them.
• China
16 Sep 08
yes, i will. i hate cheat.