Do you agree that mistress aew more fighter than real wife??

@cecelgay (563)
Philippines
September 16, 2008 11:35pm CST
I watch tv series last night, it is about two woman in one man who are friends... the wife and the mistress are very good friends but friend fall inlove in her friends husband, when the wife know about their affair all are affected, the friendship and the family, the wife cant accept the truth that why of all her husbands woman is her good friend,because wife want to stay for the sake of their son she talk to her husband and made promise to her that it will not happen again, she also talk to her friend but to stop her affair to her husband and just move on to the other place but her friend told her that nobody can dictate her what to do.. Then suddenly her friend told her that why not let the 3 of them together, they will stay in one house, two of them in one man... "THE NERVE! tsk... if you're in that position what will you do? you're trying to save your family but still the other woman dont want to give up, what will you do? Is it true that other woman is more fighter than the real wife?
2 responses
@klaudine (3652)
• Indonesia
17 Sep 08
I never agree with being the mistress. i don't like them. I have my personal experiences about these kind of women and I really hate them. I don't care whether they have the nerve or they are a fighter, but what they did was wrong because they ruin someone's happiness. They ruin someone's family, and they ruin someone's faithfulness. Personally, I think it is not her being more tough than the wife. If the wife isn't a fighter, she would have left the cheating husband. He is a cheater after all. But the wife is fighting for the family, fighting for her pride as a wife and as a woman. But this woman, the mistress, has no pride. Her life is so low with becoming the destroyer. If she is a fighter, it is not the man that she should be fighting for. She have to fight for her own life, her own pride and she would respect herself more. I don't have any respect to these kind of women. [i] i am so sorry to become so much emotional here, your discussion just remind me to the bad past experience in my family and I really thankful you have brought this topic up
@cecelgay (563)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
yes, i agree, same as you, i really hate mistress, same as you i experience it personally, the nerve of that woman.. that time i wanted to kill her, also up to the point that i used bad words on to call her, she ruin my family, she ruin my sons life, she destroy my kids right to live having a normal family.. I still cant forgive her. Now my husband giver her up over us, though he choose us over that woman still the trust and love that i invested to him are now gone...
@klaudine (3652)
• Indonesia
17 Sep 08
I get your point, and I am so sorry that you have to experienced something like that. I know that feeling, having your life destroyed by someone who doesn't even worth living. I know I am using a hard words but it just to imply that I really hate that kind of women. I know that you're hurt and that isn't your fault that you are no longer love and trust your husband. Giving him a second chance would be a good thing, even he doesn't deserve it. I am glad you're surviving :) We can get rid of that women out of the universe so that would be no more broken family because of the 3rd party
@chabawel (330)
• Philippines
17 Sep 08
It's sad how a third party would want to be in a household of his/her lover. I won't allow it. Even if the other woman is a good friend of mine. If it's me, our friendship has already ended the day I've found out about the affair. The respect for the other person is no longer there. If it's me, I will ask my husband if we can start a new life somewhere else if my husband is being true to his word about moving on and ending the affair. I will not wait any longer to be in the dark and see my family destroy because of my so-called friend who is being the other woman.