Do you forgive easily?

By Bala
@balasri (26554)
India
November 6, 2006 3:56am CST
Lets see how people take things.
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85 responses
• India
6 Nov 06
no.....
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@balasri (26554)
• India
6 Nov 06
Hurt very much huh?
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@luckiest (282)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 06
I won't forgive them too..
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@neon2000 (2762)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
I easily forgive when the things done doesn't leave scar in my heart. But if it was emotional, It takes time to forgive.
• Malaysia
4 Dec 06
The way you forgive someone, was the same way of me too due to the conditions.
@magikrose (5424)
• United States
9 Nov 06
Tripple Moon Goddess - My fav image.
I have to admit I really dont forgive that easily. I have to hear an appoloigy before I will consider forgiving someone. Except my kids, Ican forgive them at a drop of a hat because they are kids, I understand that they are still learning and they will make tons of mistakes.
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@balasri (26554)
• India
9 Nov 06
Right.Just cant forgive like that.
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• United States
9 Nov 06
Yea, I forgive easily and most of my friends and family say I forgive way too easily at times. That's why I end up getting walked all over, taken advantage of, and hurt; but I just keep on doing it. Don't really like to hold a grudge and I am a firm believer that there is a little good in everyone and people can change; I know because I was one of those people that changed and I am now a better person than I was before I had my kids.
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@balasri (26554)
• India
9 Nov 06
Beautiful writing.Please accept a plus for that.
@michele609 (1687)
• United States
9 Nov 06
it is a mattet of the situation! but yes I have forgave people!
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@balasri (26554)
• India
9 Nov 06
A plus for being so good.
• China
9 Nov 06
I quite am amiable. Always does not haggle over too many.
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@balasri (26554)
• India
9 Nov 06
You are an angel .You get a plus for that.
@SarahJaya (412)
• India
9 Nov 06
Yes. I forgive easily. See we are having one life and we don't know how long we are going to live. Within a short span what we will do having grudge and loose peace of mind. So be happy and keep others happy.
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@balasri (26554)
• India
9 Nov 06
I will give you a plus for being such a wonderful person.
@xbrendax (2668)
• United States
8 Nov 06
No! I say I forgive just to sound nice but in reality, I NEVER forgive! I will be on guard the rest of my life around that person! And my trust in him is gone!
@balasri (26554)
• India
8 Nov 06
Its nice to be nice and wary at the same time.
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I try but somethings are very hard to forgive
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@balasri (26554)
• India
7 Nov 06
i understand
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@wildpvcgal (1093)
6 Nov 06
Idon,t bear grudges so i can be quite fogiving. There are some nasty people out there who are not worth knowing. When it comes to friends and family, everyone makes mistakes. We learn from it, hence, forgive and forget an moving on from it. xx
@balasri (26554)
• India
11 Nov 06
You are a good girl.
@lingli_78 (12845)
• Australia
6 Nov 06
depends on what the person do to me... but i don't usually hold grudges against anybody as i want to live a happy life...
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@balasri (26554)
• India
6 Nov 06
Tht's nice of you.
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@royalease (134)
• United States
8 Nov 06
not so easily but i do
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@kenari (53)
• Malaysia
8 Nov 06
as for me.. it's easy to say "I forgive you", but i'll never forget what they've done to me if it hurts me much..
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• Pakistan
8 Nov 06
yes i do if someone say truth to me.
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• India
8 Nov 06
yes
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@justnitya (1393)
• India
8 Nov 06
yes
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• India
8 Nov 06
That depends on the mistake, but my opinion would be that it that person continues to repeat the same mistake over and over again and you getting mad at the person and explaining what it does to you doen't get that person to stop making the mistake, you should just make that person learn with some tough love. Teach him/her a lesson so that he/she learns from it, the hard way.
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@RebeccaLynn (2256)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I tend to be forgiving to a fault. Many times people that I forgive walk on me all over agaim. They seem to think forgiveness = weakness. I had to learn to love those people from a distance. In this way I can keep my conscience clear and not get stepped on.
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• United States
6 Nov 06
I tend to forgive easily. Now about forgetting sometimes that is a problem for me. God forgives us all the time and looks beyond are faults. God Bless
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@nmw2005 (1198)
• United States
6 Nov 06
honestlt, it depends on the situation.
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