No One Can Hurt You
September 17, 2008 7:16am CST
People don't have the power to hurt you. Even if someone shouts abuse at you or strikes you, if you are insulted, it is always your choice to view what is happening as insulting or not. If someone irritates you, it is only your own response that is irritating you, Therefore, when anyone seems to be provoking you, remember that it is only your judgment of the incident that provokes you. Don't let your emotions get ignited by mere appearances. Try not to merely react in the moment. Pull back from the situation. Take a wider view; Compose yourself. Please share ur opinions and coments on my discussion...............
17 Sep 08
Hi there prudhvi27! Sometimes, things are easier said than done. It is easy to say that what we feel is not caused by other people but ourselves. However, if we are in a certain situation, we can't help but blame other people for what is happening to us. We have the power to protect ourselves from hurt and shame but it's so unfortunate that not all of us can be as powerful. There are those who are weak when it comes to this aspect. Nice discussion.
17 Sep 08
Yes that's right,we have the control and we have the choices, when we let someone to hurt us then they will hurting us.If we become inferior and never stand up lots of people looked down you and irritated you so much. So that depends on us to make any measures and steps how to get rid of this.
17 Sep 08
This applies when you have nothing to do with the society, if this is there, why do you wear clothes, why do you eat, why do you do job, if you dont care about the society you live in then why do you only care about when they push you back! this is very easy to say and very hard to do , somethings you can do it but repeateadly you can never as you know the truth that society makes your identity and rubs it down, We say make your identity? its the global world and society where we have to register ourselves, your concept is by far just 10% applicable in real life it cant relly be done! Have a nice day!