What do you do to help your partner get over a bad event in his or her life?

Philippines
September 18, 2008 1:59am CST
To all mylotters, what do you do or say to your partner so that he or she could get over a bad event in his or her life. It's really hard to see our partners very sad and we could do nothing about it. So tell me how do you help your partner get over a bad event in life?
5 responses
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
For me what I do is I hug her,I even wipe her tears and ask her well everything will be okay don't feel bad about it, I am here you can tell me what you feel,sometimes I'll just make her smile by telling her jokes. Just to forget what she's feeling of. I think all of us somehow comes into this kind of situation when our partner is getting over or feeling bad. It depends on the problems it self to give advice. But for it is better to release what your partner feels and be just a good listener. Have a nice day!
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• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Thanks for responding!
@chabawel (330)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
There's really nothing I can do about getting over a bad event. I will wait for him/her to come to me to open the topic. I rather let the person come to me than push the topic because he/she may feel awkward talking about the subject.
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Thanks for responding
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
For me, i should not brought the topic about her past event when we are having a conversation, for me past is past, and we learn for our mistake, i must of course show to her/him that i am not affected about what the bad events in her/him past, i want to her to feel that i accept her/him who ever and what ever she/he is, no human being were perfect. explain to him/her that maybe that things happen for some reason.. if cannot be avoided the past could be brought up, look for the good side of the event and talk about it, am sure not bad events is really a bad event, it has good on it in some points..
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• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Thanks for responding
@LarienOB (103)
• China
18 Sep 08
HI,I felt there is something hard for your partner.I want to say that something about my parents. My dad have his own company,few years ago,the company got some challenge,my dad just sat on the sofa,face to the TV,and did nothing all night.And my mom just stand by,said nothing .
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• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Yup silence does means a lot at times. Thanks for responding!
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
I will be by his side all the time and tell him that I'm here, I'll always be beside him. I'll be with him no matter what.
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• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Thanks for responding