Looking back

@aize003 (225)
Philippines
September 18, 2008 5:49am CST
Did you ever waste to much time on a certain boy or girl?is it worth it?
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12 responses
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
18 Sep 08
I can say that some of my relationships were just a waste of time. Yes, I made mistakes, sometimes I was wrong sometimes some one else. But I learned from my mistakes and will never do them again with another person. Relations are relations, no matter if they are good or bad.
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
18 Sep 08
Sorry, I made mistake. Just wanted to say that I can't say that my relations were a waste of time.
• Philippines
19 Sep 08
Definetely yes if she is deserving. I have experience to love other girls before and it so difficult to give up a love even if she cheated... The most difficult is my first love... but you know what, I know now how to control after that event... I see to it that before I fall, she will be deserving of my everything.... Thanks for that expereince, I have learned. Happy mylotting!
@hotranger (446)
• India
19 Sep 08
love  - love is life
Knowing a person requires some time and you cannot that is a waste of time . if you cannot use spending sometime on someone than it is most likely that you may fail in relationships . spending time on somebody helps you to fine the true character of the person and belief me its not a waste . try to know people with their inner beauty and not with looks . may be the person is not the person what you are looking
• United States
19 Sep 08
god i spent like 9 months with a guy and it was a total waste of time.. he screwed me up and cheated on me while being psycho possessive and jealous.. he then harassed me afterwards.. it was so stupid but oh well.. im sure i learned some thing from it.. irks me though.. 9 months when your a teenager is a long time
@mands61123 (2099)
18 Sep 08
hun i think we've all wasted significant amount of time on someone we wished we hadn't and now cringe at the thought of but thats good it shows we've grown, matured, (got some sense, new glasses etc)and we'll never make that mistake again. Plus i think you have to wade through the s*it to appreciate the good when it comes otherwise you wouldn't know how good you had it now would you!
@prajnith (942)
• India
18 Sep 08
Well yes i did waste lots of my time on a gal & she dumped me,well it did teach me lots of lessons about trusting people around us and ya i can say it was worth something...
@rainmark (4307)
18 Sep 08
I never put some time to looking back from my previous relatiosnhip. It's a waste of time for me. But sometimes i can't avoid comparing my present lovelife to my previous lovelife and i found that i am so happy of what i have now than the past.It's not really worth it,specailly when you have lots of heartaches in the past.
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
waste of time? when the relationship is getting stronger, no wasted time, but when it fails, we think we just wasted our time, for me there's no wasted time, we learn from mistakes and experience, so i can't say even a failure relationship is a wasted time..
@ahm_raq (165)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
the time you spent with the person u love, wether good or bad, is always worth it because you experience it and learn something from it. If you are both still keeping the love alive, rejoice. If not, be thankful still that somehow you felt love grew in you and that atleast you have given it a try.
@wolfie34 (26881)
• United Kingdom
18 Sep 08
Definitely NOT, when that person turns out to be a manipulative, control freak, sadly I wasted 4 years of my life with the same person, I wasted 4 years of my life and now I can never get those years back, but I shouldn't waste time regretting what I have done in the past, that is finished, I can't do anything about it, but I have learnt a valuable lesson, I will never waste any more time with NO ONE. I have declared myself single for the rest of my life so I can enjoy life for ME! Time is far too valuable to waste on some people.
@flance101 (137)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
nope, im not a player. i dont like having regrets. :) i dont think i wasted my time on my exlover, and hopefully, he thinks the same way. though the two of us are not together anymore, we know we really did love each other, we never cheated, and tried to keep our friendship even while we were together. we are both happy for each other, even after separating ways. :)
@ronaldinu (12454)
• Malta
18 Sep 08
Looking back I would say no its not worth it. I had a crush on a girl that lasted two years. I waited and waited but it was to no avail. It is better to move on in your life. There are many fish in the sea.