Are you judgemental?
18 Sep 08
When I was younger and immature, yes I was. But at my age, I am no longer one. I tend now to be more tolerant and understanding of other people. I am also more opem to people who in spite of differences I know should be treated with respect. Judging others is a normal trait of people, but with the Golden Rule as a guide, it would be a lot easier to accept other people.
19 Sep 08
[b]i think everybody does...the good thing is that we learn from it, and should avoid if it requires...if it's for good we should just talk to them directly and not judge them by mistake... thanks for sharing! have a nice day! God bless! +rating![/b]
18 Sep 08
Hmm... I'm not sure whether you're asking judgmental as in, we judge others easily by only a certain category? Or judgmental as in "fault-finding". If it was the first part, then, yes. I am judgmental. I don't think anyone can honestly say that they've never judged something or someone based on just a particular category, if only because we're, you know, humans with likes and dislikes and perceptions on things that differ greatly with others. Obviously we'll judge others or something, especially when we disagree with them/don't like them. Or just because we're used to thinking that something/someone with those particular traits are like something we've encountered before. For example, I don't like cough medicines. If someone asks me to imbibe a cough medicine, I'll immediately think it tastes disgusting even if I've never taken that particular brand before. On the same vein, a girl with all the latest fashion in clothes and trends plus a haughty way of speaking will ping my, "Wealthy, spoiled princess" button even if I don't really know whether she's wealthy or spoiled. If it's the latter, though. Hmm. I have done that too. I can't help not liking something I don't like, and often, I usually see the bad things of what I don't like than the good things. So that makes me judgmental on that front too.
18 Sep 08
Im not judgmental type of person. I am more observant. I always use my common sense.I never judge someone right away of who and what he is. I just wait a right time to get to know him better and i observe his behavior and attitude.I always look at the other side of the person.