which is the most important thing that last long a relation?

India
September 20, 2008 5:52am CST
The most important thing that i do feel necessary for a unbreakable relationship is TRUST,the moment you loose trust the relation ends their itself.rply eager to see your comments.
6 responses
• Malaysia
22 Sep 08
I do agree with some of them. TRUST, UNDERSTANDING, and FORGIVENESS this is part of the important role in a relation. I guess this is true?
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• United States
22 Sep 08
I think this was a very good response. I agree with it but I think there is one more bigger. Love. You can have a friend with trust understanding and forgiveness but you cants have a lover without love. Next to love would be trust, understanding, and forgiveness. My philosiphy is and I quote (Myself) "Love isn't about never doing anything wrong and having a perfect relationship with your partner. It's about loving them enough to forgive them for what they have done, whether it is thier fault or not. Love is about understanding and forgiveness, even if sombody does the thing you hate most, if you truely love them, you should find it in your heart to forgive them." What does everybody else think about my post/quote?
@joy4you (641)
• India
24 Sep 08
Would you still love and forgive if your partner did not love you and continued to do things to hurt you? I know I would and have been doing. Sometimes we love someone so much that we are ready to sacrifice everything for them.
• Malaysia
24 Sep 08
You will totally get mad and angry when you found out that your partner lies on you, cheated on you and even hurt you. Sometimes, you really unable to control what you are doing because of LOVE. You will be willing for him to hurt and cry for him even you know he won't give you happiness. Love power is too great. Therefore, you need to think and take the right choice. My ex broke me many times but I still not giving up on him. He hurts me everyday and I really can't afford too lost him. In end, I left him. I think in another positive way. That is give him what the choice my ex ask for. So we broke up. As long the opposite is happy I am happy. That is what I told myself and now I have a BETTER GUY.. I LOVE HIM 100 times more!!! haha.. I'm crazy..
• Malaysia
22 Sep 08
Hi, I've been a lover boy before. I have a girlfriend before. We love each other and sometime we think of getting married without our parents knowledge. But suddenly someone had put fire into our relationship. I dont know that she really trust this story and decide to break off. She doesnt want to see me anymore. I feel sad but to be gentlemen I give the way. Then she got married with another guy. I dont know wether she feel happy or not until one day coincidently we met. From that day onwards she try to talk to me in the phone. She told me that she felt sorry for what she had done to me. I told her its already too late. So when you had a GF or BF please be patience, try to understand your partner and respect the relationship.
@Icyfairy (284)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
20 Sep 08
i seriously agree with you. i believe that trust and communication are extremely important ingredients if a relationship is gonna work out.
• India
20 Sep 08
Friendship....yes thats what is necessary for a long and succesful married life....:-) Marry your best frnd and u will have respect, trust and all the other mandatory attributes in the relationship
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
20 Sep 08
Trust, understanding and faithfulness are the most important things in relations for me. But anyway, if I can't trust to the person our relations won't be the same.
@nlcapricorn (1115)
• Philippines
20 Sep 08
In my side the most important thing to the relationship to last longer is RESPECT. If both of you have that one im sure relationship will last longer as you want it be. Everything will go with it if you had respect. Just like what we did with my boyfriend. What we had on each other is respect. We are still 3 years in a relationship anyway and its really effective.