Wouldn't you like to know....

@redkathy (3375)
United States
September 22, 2008 12:32am CST
Well, my blue star just turned red after weeks and weeks. Don't you wish you could see who gave you a negative rating?? I sure do
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• United States
22 Sep 08
That's something I've always wondered about. I wish there wway to find out, but it would probably cause a lot of the people on myLot to be very inhibited, worrying about what others might think. I've had a red 9 from the beginning, don't know why I never went to 10. Still, I post what I want, when I want, and that's probably as it should be.
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@redkathy (3375)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Yep you are right on both counts. This is a discussion sight, so there will be different opinions right.
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• United States
22 Sep 08
When people say they know who the trolls are who just mess with peopleratings to be mean, I try to find out who they mean so I can avoid them, but nobody's told me yet. I've only rated one person with a minus, but he was totally out of line; I think he expected this to be a dating site! Most people I chat with get plusses, and deserve them!
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@redkathy (3375)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I don't do the negatives either! Mom always said, If you don't have anything nice to say, be quiet!
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• Malaysia
22 Sep 08
hi red i was in a heated argument in "religion" over the past week, and no where else ... and now i am also red .. from blue .. .. i know who , but what is the point of knowing who ... .. if someones argument in discussion does not hurt/embarass/insult than we can give the "-" but here it is more of a childish game ... for this children .. it is used for a more "i dont like you" or "i dont support your comment" ... lets just enjoy our other discussions .. and avoid this annoying ones cheers
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@redkathy (3375)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Yes I see that. You know, I had religion as one of my interests because it is however I'm not interested in fighting and that's about all I read under that interest so I deleted it. Like you say Childish!
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• Malaysia
22 Sep 08
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@richiem (3646)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
No, I wouldn't agree on that. If we can see who have rated us negatively, there would be a lot of flame wars here. We would end up rating each other negatively and you won't see quality posts anymore. And we don't want that. Have a nice day!
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@redkathy (3375)
• United States
22 Sep 08
No we don't want that. I would really just make sure I didn't respond to those people but everyone not like me!
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@richiem (3646)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
The problem is it is hard to know who likes us and who don't.
@irishidid (8734)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I just noticed I went down a number. I hope it was my saying I preferred evil Sarah Palin over false messiah Obama.
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@redkathy (3375)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Too funny me too! I think hiccup said it all about the stars in that post!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
22 Sep 08
i didn't know why they turned red, i thought it was something better & wondered why mine never tuned. is there no way to find out who did it? dirty dogs!!
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@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
22 Sep 08
mine has been yellow forever. what doe that mean? thank, jo
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• United States
22 Sep 08
i know what the stars mean but i did not know what the colors meant. i am sorry to hear that someone is sabatoging you... people can be so mean. don't let it get you down! i just gave your discussion a positive rating! :)
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@redkathy (3375)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Yeah thanks. You know I don't reply to argumentative discussions and try to be considerate in my replies. I think it's immaturity that got me a negative. That's ok I like my lot too much to worry about it! The colors are for each rating number... blue star is 10, red is 9, yellow 8, and so on. Have a great night!
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@goldeneagle (6775)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Well I must admit that I use the term "raghe*d" more than I probably should these days in discussions, but to be honest with you, I really don't care if I offend them. They offended me on 9/11, so they can get over it or die with it...LOL
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@msmell (1378)
• Australia
22 Sep 08
Hi Kathy, To be honest I couldn't even tell you what colour my rating is so going to have to go check after I have posted this reply... So I guess I can honestly then say no this wouldn't worry me and I myself have never put a negative rating against any one as i think that is just plain rude and I have no intend to do it either anyway I hope your rating goes back up for you
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@gr8life (6253)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 08
Hello redkathy, Pity you! I experienced once and it made me wonder as I don't think I am a type of person who can make others to rate me negatively. But for sure, if I could find the culprit, I really want to know who that person is...
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• United States
25 Sep 08
i would like to know too.. but i guess its best they never tell just because there are psychos out there and if mylot didnt delete them before they told/showed them who then god only knows what the psycho could do..
@redkathy (3375)
• United States
25 Sep 08
Yep you are correct. It would be horrible I'm sure, nothing but arguing or worse. Oh well I'll have to settle for red, no pun intended
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