why when i crossed one hurdle another is waiting for me??

@yadav8797 (1211)
India
September 22, 2008 7:57am CST
friend, why this is happen with me whenever i will crossed one hurdle(or problem) in my life another hurdle(or problem) come in front of me?? i am always in my facing these troubles??my life is going passing these hurdles. why the hurdle or problem of life come again and again??my whole life goes in vain due to these problem.i don't get time even for enjoyment. why problems comes in life??tell me in detail.
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@James72 (26832)
• Australia
22 Sep 08
First things first yadav and that is to stop telling yourself that this is how things are for you. Sometimes in life we need to con ourselves into believing things are better than what they are from time to time! This may sound like a bad thing to do but believe me it is not. Con yourself long enough and you do start to believe it and act it! Changing our mindset can change our world. The more positive energy we put out, the more positive things we get back. The same goes for negativity! You have nothing to lose by trying to change your thoughts on life. I hope all of this makes sense. Best of luck!
@ladygator (3469)
• United States
23 Sep 08
there you have it, I was thinking this but posted something else and here you are reitterating it. Life boils down to what you make it. I do believe in the energy that you put forth. I actually make it a point to write what I am thankful and greatful for and I try to do this Everyday. Even when I dont "feel" it I still take time to reflect on what it is in my life that brings me happiness.
@ladygator (3469)
• United States
23 Sep 08
Well Yadav my friend, This is the way that life goes. You have to learn how to ride it out just like the surfer rides the big waves. Life will be full of issues and problems always. But you will also have joys as well. Look for the lesson to learn with your struggles in life.
@Humbug25 (12551)
22 Sep 08
Hi ya yadav8797 I am sorry to hear that you having such a bad time of things at the moment but friend, life is full of hurdles and we must jump each one as it comes. The more practice we get at jumping them the fitter we will become and the hurdles won't seem so high until one day you will just be stepping over them.
22 Sep 08
Hi yardav8797, In life we are never free of problems and they always comes in bunches but we have solve them as best way we can, it called life, there will always be problems in our life so I hope you can deal with it when it hits you in the eye, good luck. Tamara
@bunnybon7 (35436)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Sep 08
IN detail. life sucks and life is not fair. we almost everyone has this, one hurdle, mountain, crappy luck, after the other. i say most because out of 1 million, id say theres someone that seems to be born lucky! but like me and you, are not. every time you think your happy something comes along and punches you in the gut. its life and not a magazine
@chabawel (330)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
Maybe, those problems are related to each other. You need to accept what's going in your life probably before you can move on to your life. Do you have any close friend there with you whom you can entrust some of your problems? It's better you speak with somebody in person about them. There's always solution to the problem. Sometimes, the answer is right in front of you that you ignore to notice it. Always think positive. This helps you overcome some of your emotional stress too. Don't be afraid to seek help. Good luck.
@gabbana (1815)
• China
22 Sep 08
because life is made up of hurdles at intervals.