how would you explain this?

Many guys are intimidated by someone who is beautiful. They just don't feel worthy. Or maybe they feel a beautiful person would be hard to hold on to because they could have anyone they wanted.

A lot of times, I think it is because people that often consider themselves better looking than others, have more of an attitude or Ego problem, and may even end up being a little picky when it comes to Marriage and picking a mate, so that is why they are single. When it comes to Marriage, I feel looks really should never be an issue. No, who wants someone that really lets themself go as well, but it should be all about Love, and compatability. Anyone who puts in anything more than this will end up having a life of boredom and unhappiness as well.

It's probably because the good looking ones are most choosy, like you said, that they find it hard to be attracted to someone who is not as good looking or better looking than they are. Or it may have something to do with behavior. The not so good looking ones are probably more lovable and likable because what they lack in the physical is compensated with their good behavior. and a behavior with good traits wend up better looking than those who have good looks but bad manners/behavior.

Good day dear ziljie c",) I guess it's not always like that, it really depends on the person, just so happen that most of your friends who are good looking are just not ready yet for a relationship or maybe haven't found yet the right person to share with their lives. I do have lots of "good looking" friends since high school till college and i observed that they're the ones who we're married first and of course the "not so good looking" friends were also married now. i guess It's a matter of finding the right person for you. How about you? Do you have a boyfriend now?c",) that is if you don't mind sharing it here, i would want to know c",) tc always my friend c",)

Well zilje, I would say that looks don't really matter??? I guess it is what is on the inside that counts??? I really don't know! Sometimes I wonder when I see people who are not really that great looking with a boyfriend/girlfriend husband/wife and I see nice looking people alone. But, quite honestly in real life, that doesn't happen that often. Not from what I see anyway. It seems to be that the better looking people are the ones that are paired up. It should matter what people look like anyway on the outside. It should really be all about what is on the inside that really matters because when it comes down to it that's what you have to live with. Beauty fades with time so there better be more to a relationship then just what's on the outside or you will end up being a very unhappy couple!