how would you explain this?

Philippines
September 22, 2008 10:08pm CST
I have thought of this for a awhile now. I was just bothered with the things surround me. What's your opinion 'bout this? I have lots of friend who are good looking and not so good looking. Now, these good looking friends doesn't have partners or should I say boyfriends maybe they were just perfectionist in finding someone they could be with or they just don't like it or well i don't know. Here comes the not so good looking, they already got married or they have really someone they called boyfriends or lovers. What can you say 'bout this?
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@singout (980)
• United States
23 Sep 08
Many guys are intimidated by someone who is beautiful. They just don't feel worthy. Or maybe they feel a beautiful person would be hard to hold on to because they could have anyone they wanted.
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
hmpf,, okey! That's one reason. Thank you for the response. God bless!
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@KrauseHome (35293)
• United States
24 Sep 08
A lot of times, I think it is because people that often consider themselves better looking than others, have more of an attitude or Ego problem, and may even end up being a little picky when it comes to Marriage and picking a mate, so that is why they are single. When it comes to Marriage, I feel looks really should never be an issue. No, who wants someone that really lets themself go as well, but it should be all about Love, and compatability. Anyone who puts in anything more than this will end up having a life of boredom and unhappiness as well.
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• Philippines
24 Sep 08
You have a point. Yeah, I agree. Thank you for the response. I appreciate it. God bless!
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@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
23 Sep 08
Well zilje, I would say that looks don't really matter??? I guess it is what is on the inside that counts??? I really don't know! Sometimes I wonder when I see people who are not really that great looking with a boyfriend/girlfriend husband/wife and I see nice looking people alone. But, quite honestly in real life, that doesn't happen that often. Not from what I see anyway. It seems to be that the better looking people are the ones that are paired up. It should matter what people look like anyway on the outside. It should really be all about what is on the inside that really matters because when it comes down to it that's what you have to live with. Beauty fades with time so there better be more to a relationship then just what's on the outside or you will end up being a very unhappy couple!
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• Philippines
23 Sep 08
oh yes! Personality also counts. Thank you! God bless!
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@aprilten (1977)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
It's probably because the good looking ones are most choosy, like you said, that they find it hard to be attracted to someone who is not as good looking or better looking than they are. Or it may have something to do with behavior. The not so good looking ones are probably more lovable and likable because what they lack in the physical is compensated with their good behavior. and a behavior with good traits wend up better looking than those who have good looks but bad manners/behavior.
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
oh well I guess,, you're right It may have something with the behavior. Thanks for the idea. I appreciate it. God bless!
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@mycharm88 (2292)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
Good day dear ziljie c",) I guess it's not always like that, it really depends on the person, just so happen that most of your friends who are good looking are just not ready yet for a relationship or maybe haven't found yet the right person to share with their lives. I do have lots of "good looking" friends since high school till college and i observed that they're the ones who we're married first and of course the "not so good looking" friends were also married now. i guess It's a matter of finding the right person for you. How about you? Do you have a boyfriend now?c",) that is if you don't mind sharing it here, i would want to know c",) tc always my friend c",)
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• Philippines
23 Sep 08
ahem.. Mycharm88 hi! hehe.. I agree, maybe they're not ready yet or they're just looking for someone very ideal. You're asking me? hmpf,, what dou you think?hehe God bless!! Take care unni.
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@mycharm88 (2292)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
Hmmm... what do i think? i guess you already have your special someone, am i right? heheheh
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
ahem..hehe what made you think that way? who gave you that idea?hehe..
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