Honestly Are You Sincere in What you Write at My Lot

India
September 23, 2008 12:31pm CST
I am inviting all the friends and members at m lot to start the discussion if we are sincere in what ever we write in the Discussions we post and responses we made at my lot. If you do not respond to this, my question will remain live for life to be discussed through at m lot. To me I am sincere in writing at my lot as I write here from the core of my heart and I write what my conscious ask me to write. What about other members, please cite your version so that members ma know what you write is really means some thing or just for writing or making scores.
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22 responses
• India
24 Sep 08
Of course, i do I make ti a point to be as personal and sincere to the questioner i can. Some people may see it from the negative perspective, some might find it comforting, but I try to maintain a good relationship with all. And all that automatically makes my answer sincere. You have to stand in the position of the person asking the question, feel and see the situation from his perspective, and then answer accordingly.
• United States
24 Sep 08
Replying to any comment should be giving your opinion back to the poster, right? I never reply to a topic that doesn't interest me. And, even though I often will say things that others don't like, I say what I feel. It's a total waste of time for me to write anything but the truth.
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@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
I am honest on what I post or respond to mylot. I enjoy posting here and finding new friends. But my honesty has limits and I know everyone has it's own limits on posting here. That limits includes personal information and very detailed information. Some my lotters might get bored reading very detailed information right?! LOL... Well, everyone has a little bit of sweet and sour on their lives so it makes readers responds on the topic and add their version of sweet and sour of their life. Sharing ideas!!! Happy my lotting!!!
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@Ldyjarhead (10157)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I always write sincerely. People may not always like what I say, but I say what I mean. I see no reason to be anyone but who I am.
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@despompa (472)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
yes i am sincere with what i write and what i comment on mylot. some was base on personal experiences, and others are according to my own opinion. i don't see the reason why others are too insensitive specially if the issue is too personal and vulnerable. i mean, if you couldn't be yourself, then stop making rude comments. like one time somebody posted this." why would everyone discuss about water, food etc?" i mean who cares? as long as the discussion is decent then why would you comment something that could hurt other peoples feelings? if that's what they wanted to talk about then let it be. give others the respect they needed and if you can't make any useful comment, stop mylotting!
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
Ofcourse I am sincere in what I post in mylot, whether if its a discussion, a comment or just a thank you note. If you write with your heart and you think about what you post and be sincere on each and every word you write, I think it's more beneficial for you than mylot. Because we are being happy in mylotting not just for the purpose of earning. Ask not what mylot can do for you but what you can do for mylot. LOL.
• India
24 Sep 08
Definitely, i write only that stuff which i really mean.See when you come across some topic and you want to respond then you have to understand the issue and then think about it and then you are able to write. I think writing is the most honest way to express yourself and in mylot where you are actually not known to people you can be as honest as possible.
@lynnemg (4539)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I am one of those people that believe in honesty and sincerity. Therefore, when I respond to a post or discussion, you can bet that I am responding from the heart. Isn't that the whole idea here?
@chaska (170)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I write the honest truth in everything I write in My lot I only respond to discussions that I feel I can add an honest opinion. I have not began a discussion as of yet , but I will very soon. I think everyone at Mylot would appreciate if all responses and discussions are genuine. I have invited a few friends to join mylot and I hope they will.
@owlwings (38896)
• Cambridge, England
24 Sep 08
Yes, I'm sincere - unless I am being ironic or sarcastic. Even then, what I mean to say is sincere. Sincere comes from the Latin meaning 'without wax'. It referred to statues where sometimes a blemish or chip was filled in with wax. You could apply the same thing to cars today where a dent has been filled in with paste and resprayed to look new!
@kerriannc (4281)
• Jamaica
24 Sep 08
Whenever I write a discussions or respond to one it is a reflection of myself and how I feel. Sometimes in responding to a discussion I will go off the handle and sometimes it also happen that I will misunderstand. Whenever the misunderstanding happens I found out after posting and cannot take it back. So what I have started practice now is to read back before posting. I think sincerity is better because alot of persons does write for genuine advise so I prefer to be sincere in whatever I do here in MYLOT.
@bamakelly (5194)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I do feel that I am as sincere as I can be because I like to get my point across and be helpful if I can to the other members. Yes, I do earn some money here like anybody else, but it does count to be descriptive and give counsel to posts that I find interesting. I like to respond to posts that I find could use my input and therefore I just kind of go from there and hope that a member likes what I have to say. There is also another reason that this site can be rewarding. I like to receive a best response because it makes me feel like I have contributed to someone and that they appreciated my words.
@sharra1 (6344)
• Australia
24 Sep 08
Absolutely. I may upset some people by my attitudes and tastes and ideas but I am always sincere in what I post no matter how many people do not want to hear it. I try and respond with sincerity, depth of feeling and what I genuinely feel. There are some people who do not like my ideas and would seek to silence me but I only say what I truly feel and I believe that we should be tolerant of other people's beliefs and feelings when they post. I am upset that some members cannot tolerate different viewpoints and choose to flame or insult a poster for stating a belief that they have no tolerance for. I find that very sad.
@paid2write (5202)
24 Sep 08
I don't know why anyone would write things they don't believe at myLot, and if they did, I don't think they are going to join in this discussion and admit to it! The whole point of having discussions is for people to give their personal opinions or share their knowledge and experiences. This means everyone should be sincere in what they add to discussions. I have seen examples where someone is joking, or being sarcastic, and other people have taken them at their word as being serious and truthful. It is always important to remember that anything you see on the internet is not necessarily true. I have seen posts linked to articles which turned out to be a hoax, a joke or speculation, but they were posted as if it was a fact. People mislead others sometimes without intending to, based on their own misconceptions, and I think it's always try to do my own research, and find out as much as I can, before I accept anything as being certain or definite.
@marababe (2513)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
Honestly??? Okay, honestly. When I start discussions, post responses and comments on someone else's discussions what I write is sincere and came from the heart and from my mind. I'm not good at just typing blahs especially if it's as a response to a certain topic. I don't make up stories or give replies that are insincere. If that's the situation, why not just ignore right? Why should we give insincere topics or response to others anyway? So for me, sincerity matters. If you're not sincere, then don't respond.
@richiem (3646)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
I always try to write from my own experience when the discussion asks for it. I don't think people would answer that they only write just for writing or just for scores. Have a nice day!
@rainmark (4306)
23 Sep 08
Im always sincere of what i am writing here in mylot. From the discussion i've started to the responce that i posted here. And everything to me is true coz i do put sincerity for everything in my life. Happy posting.
@ibiswas (422)
• India
23 Sep 08
Hi sweethomecatring...I always make sure that whatever responses made by me on myLot are sincerely made. They have some meaning contained within itself, the thoughts which are put forward are true so that it helps my fellowmates as well. There are some discussions which are actually of high interest to me and those may have responses from the core of my heart and mind... but anyways i try my best that the responses are sincere, genuine and meaningful. Happy myLotting....
• United States
23 Sep 08
I'm sincere in everything I say here. Sometimes in a response, I might sound a little opinionated, but I am opinionated. If I am offended by a post, generally I will let it be known, but gently. I don't want to offend anybody here because I love it, but I will be honest and sincere when posting.
@Beruang (1309)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 08
When I posted something on myLot, it will be about things that I do, things that I am going through, things that I have experienced. I am not a fiction writer and therefore, whatever that I have posted so far are based on actual things or events... I could not imagine if there are members out there that posted fake stuffs. I guess those people are here just for the sake of making some money and do not really have the spirit of the community... That would be sad to know...The good thing is that in normal cases, those dishonest members would not last long. It is either they would give up since they did not get the money that they expected or they got caught for lying, which hardly happens here. Anyway, it is good that if we write about the real thing as that would make myLot a credible community that would be respected by everyone.