he confessed his love!! but i can't say yes..
By eemee468
@eemee468 (446)
Philippines
September 23, 2008 2:48pm CST
the thing is, i don't love him. He could've been my first boyfriend, but no, he's not special for me. i know, it's harsh, but i really don't.
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and the worst part is that our classmates do not understand that, because they are the ones pushing the two of us, teasing us, and all. And they've been doing that eversince ever!! the thing is, we weren't even friends, so we can't go back to something after i rejected him. ouch.
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now i'm feeling this guilt and everyone's turning against me, like im being a rude girl, harsh person, because im being true to myself that i can't love him, i really can't!!
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and if i give him a chance? what's that? pity?.. oH!! this is hard.. help..
5 responses
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
23 Sep 08
don,t play around with this man feeling if you don,t want him stop being around him no matter what your friends want you to do.some how he been feed fault hope he really believe you cared for him and wanted to be with him but you say you don,t so it done back off and stay away from him because he has feeling for you.
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@graceandowen (1637)
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23 Sep 08
hi hunnii
no matter how hard its going to be you need to tell him the truth he deserves the truth and im sure in time he will get over it, there is not point feeling guilty about this you cant force love and if you dont have that sort of feelin for him its unlikley it will come, you can stay with him and try but at your young age the world is your oyster and you should both go your seperate ways and live your lifes in my oppinion
dont worry what friends and class mates will say after all they are not the ones in this relationship you 2 are so decide how YOU feel and then act on that
good luck
Lucy
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@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
you dont have to tell him you love him just because your friends wnated him for you. you are not rude, you are just acting what is true. being rude is accepting his love while you dont feel the same way... for me that is rude. if you dont like him then its okay. end of the story. you are feeling guilt just because people around you likes the guy for you? who are them to decide for that. that is to personla already for them to be minggling with that.
