Mediums?

@jdeforge (224)
United States
September 24, 2008 3:18pm CST
So I've been reading more and more about mediums and what not since a death of a loved one. I'm trying to find a sense of peace I suppose... I've never experienced anything that prove to me they're with me, I don't have the money to see a medium, does anyone have any ideas of what I can do to give me some type of relief that they're okay?
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@piniongrl (142)
• United States
5 Oct 08
My mother showed herself to me in many different ways. Once in a dream and then other little things hearing songs she liked on the radio when I'm thinking of her flickering the lights little things like that. If your open to the messages they will come and my experience says that they won't give you more then you can handle. Many of my relatives saw my mom's apparition but I think my mom knew that it would probably scare me so she stuck to simpler yet still decipherable signs.
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
25 Sep 08
ask them for a sign. one may just come to you, most likely in a dream. tip..never pay anyone to help you find closure with a loved one. there are people who are true mediums and those will not ask for any compensation for the most part. but there are also a lot of people around to rip you off. anyway. the point is to believe they are watching over you. they may not always be with you, but when you need them is when they may appear.
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@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
28 Oct 08
Hi jde I think you should start watching John Edwards on Friday nights. He is a really good Medium, very popular. I think it would make you feel better just by watching him help people in his audience connect with their loved ones who have passed. I have believed in this connection with loved ones who have passed for a long time. It really does give you peace of mind. Just by watching him on TV might give you the tools to know how to connect. I had a reading once after my second husband passed away and I walked away a believer. It really does help to know that they are happy again. If you are interested in seeing Jon Edwards, he is on the WE channel on cable if you can get it. leenie
@ShellyB (5241)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I would say think about your loved ones before going to sleep and sometimes you might get a message in your dreams, and you will know when that happens. Good luck.
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• Canada
24 Sep 08
I read a lot of Sylvia Brown books. She's the only medium that i believe in. She says in one of her books that the best way to contact a loved one is through dreams. Write a note saying that you wish to seek "uncle chuck" and would like to see if he's ok. Place the note under your pillow before you go to sleep and see what happens. If the loved one just passed recently, you might need to give it a week or two before they are able to contact you through dream. Also before bed, in prayer style, ask for "uncle chuck" to visit you at night in a dream just so you know he's ok. It's worked for me a couple of times. I guess it's worth the try. It doesn't cost anything and no one has to know about it!
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